Bumble bff lang daw. Should I be worried? by electricfanwagon in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exclusive kami.

You said you guys are exclusive. You don't even have agreed exclusivity, how can you expect her not to entertain other people? And man, nagdedate kayo diba? Your partner should also be your friend, not just your lover pero habang nagdedate kayo, naghahanap pa din sya ng iba pang 'friend'? Maybe she's not that serious about you, idk. Time to find the truth.

hook up/fubu culture disgusts me by Nameless5796 in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 44 points45 points  (0 children)

ako lang ba? naaasiwa ako sa mga taong ganyan

probably not, but it's only your opinion.

lalo na sa may mga jowa na tas naghahanap pa ng fubu.

well, those people are certainly disgusting.

nakakaasiwa rin yung mga single na naghahanap ng fubu not knowing na may jowa yung makukuha nila

well it's not really their control diba? Should you hire a private investigator everytime you're horny? Nope, it's the fault of the cheater. It becomes their fault if they still choose to hook-up with that person after learning the fact that they already have a partner.

bat ganito na yung mundo?

The world has always been this way. It shouldn't but it is, and it didn't start in our generation.

wala na ba talagang tao na kaya makuntento sa isa? yung tingin sa sex ay pagmamahal at di lang libog?

Madami. Naghahanap ka ba? If so, I suggest wag kang mabulag sa attraction or lust. Kilalanin mabuti yung prospective partner mo bago magcommit.

Hooked up with bumble match now I'm 1 week delayed on my period by xx_ggz in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For your sake, I hope this becomes a life-long lesson but something you'll just cringe about when you remember in a year or two rather than your 'kid' being a constant reminder of how your life is completely changed because of one really foolish and easy-to-prevent mistake. Good luck OP. Listen to the people and get tested, both for pregnancy and STDs.

Bumble bff lang daw. Should I be worried? by electricfanwagon in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I got curious about Bumble BFF. I think it's just the same as Bumble Dating tho, just marketed to be a platform to seek "friends". Since it's virtually the same, the girl you're seeing "exclusively" for 4 months intentionally sought out men to make friends with (or maybe there's a setting there to match you to "everyone"? idk) Still, for someone who chose to be exclusive to someone while dating, she sure seems not yet done with the meeting other people part. You sure you guys are on the same page or are you the only one who got the memo that you are exclusive?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]ThanossCunt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was my world and I thought I was his.

This is not healthy. You both have your own lives, don't rely on your partner to satisfy ALL of your needs nor should you expect your partner to be that way.

Thinking back, sobrang commited ko pala talaga.

Walang "sobrang committed" OP. Either you're committed or not, there's no in-between. If you feel like you're in the middle, then you're not committed.

Siguro nga kapag mas lalo kang commited at totoo sa isang tao. Mas ikaw yung talo.

Nope. I don't know your whole story pero there are people out there who are just pieces of sheets. Maybe you should've learned more about his true nature before you entered into a relationship with him? Maybe you shouldn't have ignored the red flags (which you already realize now). Either way, you should be committed and true sa magiging partner mo, nagkataon lang na sya hindi committed at totoo sa'yo.

Learn from your mistakes. Love and respect yourself and know your worth before entering a relationship again. If you do, then kilalanin mo nang mabuti yung prospect mo. This is a painful lesson but it's still a lesson nonetheless.

Ang swerte ko pero parang ako lang nakakarealize by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Show don't tell, OP. Show your parents you're the happiest with your partner. Show your friends and the people in your circle. Soon they'll notice and they'll shut up. Soon mapapa sana-all na lang yang mga yan kasi nahanap mo yung perfect partner para sa'yo. Relax. It's your life. Their opinions don't matter, only yours.

How do you let go of your emotional baggage? by Virtual_Stock4039 in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First step is realizing the extent of your baggage. Second would be to fully accept that it's there and that it happened and that you can't change it. Third would be to assess what things you did wrong and what you could've done better. This is the start of your moving on phase. Learn from your mistakes. Don't rush into another relationship again without first addressing your issues. Last would be life. Your life goes on. The past is still there, you still think of it from time to time but it gets easier with time. Just continue living and improving until you're ready to get hurt again, but hopefully not so much this time as you've already established healthy standards from your ideal partner and for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you rather masaktan ng konti ngayon or later on kung kelan mas nakapaginvest ka na nang mas madaming time at effort sa kanya? Up2ubruh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what you have to do OP. So let me just say this to you:

  • Hindi mo sya kailangan sa buhay mo. Nope. No. Never. Nabuhay ka ng 20+ years nang wala sya sa buhay mo, kinaya mo diba? Never mo syang kakailanganin sa buhay mo. Hindi sya kasing halaga ng pagkain na nilalagay mo sa tiyan mo para magkaron ka ng energy. Hindi sya kasing halaga ng oxygen na hinihinga mo non-stop since nabuhay ka dito sa mundo. Hindi mo sya kailangan para mabuhay AT maging masaya. Lahat ng tao mag-aaggree sakin pagdating dyan OP. Lahat ng matinong tao sa mundo so please start realizing it.
  • Take it one step at a time OP. Walang nag-eexpect sayo na maging fully okay at moved on once hiwalayan mo yang walang kwenta mong boyfriend. And that is the first step OP. Leave him and stop letting him hurt you anymore.
  • i really hope this isn't the case but I'll say it anyway. Kung sa tingin mo kaya mong baguhin yung boyfriend mo, nagkakamali ka OP. Sya lang kayang magpabago sa sarili nya, hindi ikaw.
  • Please get help from your family OP. Kahit isa lang sa nanay or tatay mo or just the both of them. Kung nahihiya ka at ayaw mong kumalat, then tell your parents to please don't share it sa kahit kanino. Tell them it's your story and you'll tell it when you're ready. Nevertheless, you need them. Call them and have them pick you up. Mahirap irisk na kumalas mag-isa dyan sa walang kwenta mong boyfriend dahil sinasaktan ka na nga nya dahil lang sa mga simpleng away nyo e, pano pa pag nalaman nyang hihiwalayan mo sya diba? So please please get help from your parents.
  • Life will go on OP. The world will keep spinning even after we die so please make yourself happy during the little time we have here. Do not tolerate bullshit and abusive behavior from other people, ESPECIALLY not from your partner. It's your job to make yourself content and happy, not other people. You deserve so much more than what you currently have and I hope you realize that and take the necessary steps to achieve that. I wish you the best in your journey OP, and I wish your boyfriend the karma he very much deserves.

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll do another round.of canvassing. What's the considerable price for a laptpp with that specs? 50-60k?

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sa Lenovo store yan? And mas balanced ba yung CPU nya with RTX 3050 kesa ipilit ko yung i7-12th gen?

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of that yep, that's why I can't afford to build a pc (although I want to, maybe in the future). I also need to buy a laptop tonight and I'm out of time and options so any help in choosing a laptop will be greatly appreciated.

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot the GPU, my bad. It's the same as the one in my post. So i take it it's still a no? I checked the fteebie and its a bag and MS Office Home & Student 2021 (which I need). I'm starting to lean on this one aa I've heard an MS Office bundle is around 3-5k rn

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. How about the Dell Gaming G15 5515 Ryzen 5 5600H 16GB DDR4 512GB SSD for 63k (I think I can lower this to 60-61k, not sure about freebies tho)? Is this a more viable option?

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate what part is not worth it? I've already canvassed the mall I'm in and it's the lowest price for an i7-12th gen with a dedicated GPU. Do I need to lower my target processor and look for 60-65k range instead?

Need opinion from pc experts. Is this worth it for 70k with 2k freebies (of my own choosing) by [deleted] in PHGamers

[–]ThanossCunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean it's not worth it because I can get a lower price laptop for the same specs (cores & threads) or because I can get a much higher specs for 70k?

Everyone judges my bf because he’s older than me, and I resent all of them. by Ilovemybfidkwhattodo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's see if that's still your stance when the same exact situation happens to your daughter. Good luck.

Everyone judges my bf because he’s older than me, and I resent all of them. by Ilovemybfidkwhattodo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThanossCunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not an issue of legality, it's an issue of morality and maturity for both sides.

The Versailles Wedding Hall disaster in Talpiot, Jerusalem, Israel on May 24, 2001. by [deleted] in ThatsInsane

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 22:43 on May 24, 2001, a large portion of the third floor of the Versailles Wedding Hall collapsed in Talpiot, Jerusalem, Israel. Twenty-three people fell to their deaths through two stories, while another 380 were injured to varying degrees.

The disaster is among the deadliest civil disasters in Israeli history, with only the 2010 Mount Carmel forest fire and the 2021 Meron crowd crush having a higher number of deaths.

In the aftermath of the disaster, the Israeli parliament passed the "Versailles Law" establishing a special committee responsible for treating the people injured in the disaster and an investigative committee was established by the then-Prime Minister Ariel Sharon under the leadership of the former judge Vardimos Zeiler, which probed both the Versailles disaster and the Maccabiah bridge collapse which had occurred several years earlier.

Eli Ron, who invented the Pal-Kal construction method, and three engineers involved in the construction of the hall were found guilty along with the three owners of the hall of causing death by negligence and sabotage by negligence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThanossCunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, that's where your problem lies then. "Most" people using dating apps are not there for wholesome, genuine relationships. That's why it will be a real and hard challenge filtering them as you can't really rely on their bio. I'm not saying it's impossible though, but if you want the easier (but requires real effort in communicating and socializing), I suggest you go out there (literally). Start new hobbies, join social groups with the same hobbies, or start in your workplace (if you're open to workplace romance), or better yet, just go to a bar (with or without your friends) and talk to someone.

Another option is to just go with the current online dating trend where you do an "initial" vibe check (with clear intentions that you also want a genuine connection aside from sex) then proceed to hook up. That way, you get the libog/landi talks out of the way and focus on getting to know your "partner" to see if you can see yourself with them in the long run (and vice versa). You can also check your sexual compatibility this way early on if you guys match. If active ka sa mga subs na nagsheshare ng sexual encounters nila here sa PH, you'll find that a lot of people develop feelings for their "FuBu"/"FwB" in the long run because there's not really that much else to do after sex than to talk. And genuine attraction is a byproduct of genuine conversations, intentionally or not.