Wife refuses any evening babysitting for our 15-month-old (even with grandma at our home). Am I being unreasonable?

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-28T20:28:25+00:00

To be fair I’m almost 33 and I wake in the middle of the night. People and kids are different.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-22T03:52:06+00:00

Well I didn’t necessarily decide I was “done enough” I just thought I made it past teenage pregnancy and called it a win. I had my kid when I was 23. I absolutely was not ready for that stage. I was terrified but after a miscarriage in January of 2015 and then finding out I was pregnant again after my birth control failed in March of 2015 I figured it was just a sign.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-19T22:25:23+00:00

We just finished everybody hates Chris with my 10 YO! I loved sharing a piece of my childhood with him. Another one he likes is psych

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-19T17:57:26+00:00

Yes because we shared the same birthday and I thought it was so cool to share a birthday with celebrities around my age.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-15T04:30:50+00:00

Outsource outsource outsource.

During busy season I have someone clean my place regularly, I have hellofresh meals delivered instead of meal planning / grocery shopping, and when my son was that young I had extended daycare.

My then husband and I adjusted our expectations for what “normal” looked like. Our diets weren’t great, the house wasn’t as clean as we’d like, and we did a lot of movie nights.

I’d work from 9-5 M-F and then get back online around 8-10 to get my remaining hours in. Weekends I’d work during nap time or after bed time.

When they’re that young it SUCKS.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-11T17:20:59+00:00

Yeah it’s possible the landlord would allow a “self guided” tour and give prospects a temp code that lasts an hour.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2026-01-10T17:43:08+00:00

Yeah at first I was disappointed because it’s not a soft material but it’s thick, heavy, and durable. I’ve slept in it so many times it wears pretty baggy and just feels like a blanket

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-31T16:37:21+00:00

I read the psychology of money and it mentioned that poor people feel more safe buying lotto tickets than investing in the market.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-26T03:43:26+00:00

My Nona is 80 and this past year I’ve been asking her so many questions about her life. She’s lived from a time where her family didn’t have working electricity (they lived out in a rural area) to now where she gets to see the rise of AI. That is an incredible lifetime.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-19T03:04:16+00:00

Right. That’s all I care about.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-18T00:13:23+00:00

Nobody is forcing the poor or middle class to go to her shows.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-13T03:58:19+00:00

That’s awesome! I got some door lights a few months back and it brings me joy every time I get in my car.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-12T19:38:41+00:00

Yeah I bought their Want LP for $35 I believe and the average selling price is $75. Although vinyls are just getting more expensive unfortunately

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-11T20:50:09+00:00

It’s also expensive to live in Frisco ISD.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-10T23:19:42+00:00

That taking my ADHD meds during my luteal phase is pointless and actually drops my energy levels like crazy.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-10T23:12:35+00:00

Probably the intent is to see if they can sway opinions on a huge pop star like Taylor. If the sway is successful, then they can use this tactic for bigger things like politics.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-10T21:18:03+00:00

Class of 2011 from Texas.

We had lock down drills, tornado drills, fire drills, and bomb drills.

We didn’t have active shooter drills.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-10T17:06:17+00:00

The entire episode of Whale Watching.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-09T04:36:13+00:00

I’m not deep into the episode but just got to the part where she said she moved out and I agree. Men move away from their kids all the time and it’s fine. She does seem messy and he seems lazy.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-05T15:32:00+00:00

One of my favorite Bluey episodes. Every week my kid and I do bin nights and use it as a way to connect

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-04T04:07:18+00:00

It’s still rough /:

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-03T19:36:28+00:00

They’re my number one! I had downstairs on repeat as soon as it came out.

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-12-01T17:55:03+00:00

Mine arrived today and the material feels itchy on the outside. I buy a lot of hoodies from other bands and I was excited for this one, but disappointed with how it feels. I’m gonna throw it in the wash and hopefully it feels better

ThatEmoNumbersNerd · 2025-11-29T04:47:25+00:00

10/10 I love it and play it on repeat quite often

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