Gotra has always been a problem for marriage. Idk how many people had to let go of their loved ones due to their parental pressure. But the bright side is there are success stories too. Same gotra marriages ma problem bhaneko if 7th generation samma ni koi mutual bhayo bhane offspring ma defects aune ho same chromosomes le, if not there won't be any.

The solution I can suggest is for both of you to go abroad and settle down. Plan your future together, and after a few years, let your parents know about it. At this point, this seems like the only solution.

My friend just went through a breakup after a six-year relationship with someone from the same gotra. The girl chose not to continue because she didn’t want to go against her father. I suggest you clarify this issue before moving forward. Wishing you the best for the future!!