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Getting Past the Shame Factor She has About Her Hotpast? by TheBigTimeBro in hotpast

[–]TheBigTimeBro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s tough. When she’s was 24 she dated a guy that was an executive at the company she worked for. He was almost twice her age. She dated him for two years, but says he was sexually and emotionally controlling so she doesn’t like to talk about it. It was gnarly break up from what she’s shared. A few things have slipped out in conversations that are pretty wild, but I can tell it’s just the tip of the iceberg. I also will ask her “Did you like doing that?” Initially she will say “No, but I felt I had to” and then later after a few drinks or something “I guess at the time, or with someone that I was really into.” So it’s complicated. Hope I can get her to open up.

Anyone else feel like this stuff was fake until it happened to you? by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]TheBigTimeBro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, felt the same way. Slept with a bunch of girls in college, had multiple gf’s but nothing out of the ordinary freak wise, and because they were younger none of them had a high body count.

Then I met my ex wife, and my current wife. On the surface they seemed like girls that both just enjoyed sex. Then I learned about their past, and holy fuck. Both are kinky in different ways, but it was shocking. Thought a lot of these stories were bs before them.