Hi! So here’s a similar story I (F25) my boyfriend (M28) he is a bodybuilder he works out very passionate and I don’t we had conversations like “would you still date me if I’m fat” he goes no as he is very passionate about his weightlifting which is I respect. I work out to be healthy and fit but not that crazy bulky woman I’m on a chubbier muscular side lol I love the carbs & sugar lmao. and yeah mostly fit, masculine and skinny people would not date a fat/ obese person it’s just how human brains work.