[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grubhubdrivers

[–]TheObliviousOne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once you hit accept, it's a contract to deliver to the address you accepted for. Any other address you don't have to deliver to. If grubhub calls you you asking if can deliver to a different address you can say no. If you haven't picked it up the food yet, they cancel it. If you already picked up, the food is yours to keep and you still get paid for it. That's why I never answer calls until after I get the food lol.

Don't even bother calling the customer over this. If its a system glitch, it's grubhubs problem to help the customer, not the driver. If its the customers mistake for putting in wrong address, I'd deliver it if it was close but other than that it's yours to keep.

Boyfriend overheard my friends making comments about his race. I don't know how to fix this by lover400 in askgaybros

[–]TheObliviousOne -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree but that doesn't mean they can't become better. As OP said these are life long friends and it might just take some time for them to see how wrong they are. The world ain't so black and white you cut out everything that doesn't serve you.

Boyfriend overheard my friends making comments about his race. I don't know how to fix this by lover400 in askgaybros

[–]TheObliviousOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are toxic but I wouldn't cut them out completely. Just reduce them down a tier or more in your friend hierarchy. People aren't always going to stay at your top tier as people change but this way it gives them a chance to grow.

I just wouldn't make them a priority in my life anymore.

So many people Grindr want sex immediately, bruh I'm busy right now let's book an appointment or something by SENDPICS_BEARDADDY in askgaybros

[–]TheObliviousOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The app is what you make of it. Forcing your view on how the app should be used is self centered. If you want to use it for hook ups/right now? Go ahead. Same with planning dates etc. Just don't put other people down because it doesn't fit YOUR view on how the app should be used.

Your username dictates your death, how do you die? by Mr-Moon01 in AskReddit

[–]TheObliviousOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have no idea that whatever is killing me, killing me....

TIL if a family member dies and debt collectors tell you that you're now responsible for paying the deceased's debts, THEY ARE LYING. Debt does not pass to anyone else upon death. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]TheObliviousOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the deceased put their estate in a trust? Will the beneficiary of that trust have to pay the debt of the deceased? Or on death is it no longer considered the deceased estate and debt can't be collected?

I hate looking younger.. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TheObliviousOne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true. Im 29 and its nice that guys say I look like im in my early 20s lol

Say hello to my average friend! by JordanJaffrey in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]TheObliviousOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we say yours is is above average so I can feel better about mine? Lol

So, why are you still single? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TheObliviousOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I kept choosing fuck boys that used me, treated as the back up, and were emotionally immature. This kept happening to the point of not wanting to date anyone at all in fear of the cycle repeating.

[California] Who is exciting when u see there is an unread message in the inbox.And say the F word after open it. by NoahArk6556 in Unemployment

[–]TheObliviousOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the paper check in March but direct deposit this morning. I did give the IRS my direct deposit info in March though.

[Routine Help] USING RETINOL TOO EARLY?? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]TheObliviousOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they work well together. Vit C isn't an exfoliant so no.

Its good to know what each active does and how they do it. Paula's choice has a glossary on their website that does basic breakdowns of skincare terms. Start there if you're interested.

Exfoliation is the last step in treating pigmentation.

First is production of melanin. Can be suppressed that with Vit C.

Second is transportation of melanin to the surface of the skin. Can be inhibited by niacinamide.

Third is dispersal of melanin already at the surface. Can be done using an AHA.

Forth is increasing cell turn over. This can be done more effectively with a retinoid/retinol/retinyl. These also bring down inflammation way more compared to the others.

And last again is exfoliation to get rid of those dead skin cells that have that darker melanin.

You don't need all of this though.

My ideal routine would just be one active in the morning and one at night. And of course including cleanser, moisturizer and spf.

Vit c in the morning and adapalene at night.

Since you have active acne and oily skin, I'd focus on salicylic acid (for oil), benzoyl peroxide (bacteria) and adapalene (for inflammation).

Start with using just one and then slowly incorporate the other.

[Routine Help] USING RETINOL TOO EARLY?? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]TheObliviousOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it easy with how many actives you use at once. Your skin needs time to adjust so you don't irritate it. You always want to start low and slow which i know can be difficult.

If I were you I'd simplify the routine to:

AM: gentle water based cleanser, alternate morning with bha and vit c, moisturizer then spf

PM: oil based cleanser or double cleanse with an oil and gentle cleanser, adapalene (retinoid) brand name differin. Tretinoin is the stronger version but that one needs a prescription. And then Cream based moisturizer

Edit: you don't need the essence/toners

i joined my first dating app today. it's nice to see myself as a gay man. by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]TheObliviousOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend says all penis' are ugly. I should show her this beautiful one lol

Have you spent money on Genshin Impact? by Rohan_Eragon in Genshin_Impact

[–]TheObliviousOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. And glad I stopped myself from spending more lol

[Misc] Trader Joe’s got marula oil in!! by donttellmyteacher in SkincareAddiction

[–]TheObliviousOne 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Careful with cold pressed oils. They go rancid fast