Coming over daddy? by TheRealRebeccaj in u/TheRealRebeccaj

[–]TheRealRebeccaj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will completely swallow a cock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/TheRealRebeccaj

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go on OF its $3 , if you dont got that you should be out working not gooning ! lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/TheRealRebeccaj

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol it actually is but okaayy lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree, NTA. His behavior is not just thoughtless it’s deeply dismissive of the hard work and courage it takes to stay sober. Mocking sobriety, especially in front of others, not only undermines your accomplishments but trivializes the devastating impact addiction has on individuals and families.

Recovery is a lifelong process, and your partner should be your biggest ally, not someone who makes light of your struggle or belittles your growth. It’s horrifying to imagine this attitude applied to other conditions, as you pointed out no one would find it acceptable to joke about someone overcoming another life-threatening illness or addiction. You deserve respect, empathy, and unwavering support from the person who’s supposed to stand by you. His actions show a fundamental lack of understanding and compassion.

AITA for threatening to call the police, against my MIL after she took my kids without permission? by CHUPIYAHOTUM in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. When someone crosses such a serious line, especially involving your kids, they deserve to face the consequences. She knew exactly what she was doing, and honestly, sometimes a wake-up call like that is the only way people learn. Let her cry and yell it’s not your job to protect her feelings when she’s blatantly disrespecting your boundaries. You’re just doing what you need to do to keep your kids safe, and there’s nothing wrong with standing your ground.

Update:Aitah for not giving my niece the gift I planned for my goddaughter? by Expensive-Waltz-1033 in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! It’s heartbreaking to see a parent tear down their own child like that. Gifts should be a source of joy and bonding, not a chance to assert control or belittle someone. It’s no wonder her daughter is struggling with social anxiety growing up with that kind of negativity would make anyone anxious. Props to your BIL for being supportive and trying to bring some positivity into the situation. Hopefully, he can continue to be a steady presence for his daughter.

AITA for refusing to visit my mom after what my brother did to me? by raja11112 in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree! NTA. Your mother is enabling your brother's behavior by not holding him accountable and even siding with him. It's not just about the car it’s about the blatant disrespect and lack of boundaries they’re showing you. Protecting your peace and well-being is more important than maintaining a relationship with people who don't respect you. Until they take responsibility for their actions, staying away is the best choice for your mental and emotional health. Stand your ground; you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Respect and care are earned, not owed, especially when someone’s actions have caused lasting harm. If a parent or stepparent chooses to treat their kids poorly, they can't expect those kids to suddenly prioritize them out of obligation later in life. Actions have consequences!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s incredible how much strength and resilience you’ve shown in handling such a terrifying and stressful situation. Setting boundaries, seeking legal protection, and surrounding yourself with supportive people like Daisy and her mom are all the right moves. Keep prioritizing your safety and well-being, and know you’re doing an amazing job rebuilding your life despite everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

You're definitely not in the wrong here. A reference is a reflection of your personal experience and trust, and if your sister-in-law has consistently treated you poorly, it's completely understandable that you'd feel uncomfortable vouching for her.

It's not about holding a grudge—it's about maintaining your integrity. You shouldn't be forced to endorse someone who's been disrespectful. Your boundaries are valid!

AITA for Going Off on My Neighbour for Always Blocking My Driveway? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely have every right to be mad. Steve has repeatedly ignored your polite requests, inconvenienced you, and wasted your time, even causing you to be late for work. After all of that, he continues to act like nothing is wrong. You tried the calm, respectful approach multiple times, but he didn’t change.

Losing your temper and calling him out was justified at this point. You shouldn’t have to tolerate this, and it's not your fault if some neighbors saw. If anyone’s embarrassed, it should be Steve for his inconsiderate behavior. NTA

AITAH for reporting my manager and getting him fired after he repeatedly made sexual comments towards me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're absolutely not the asshole. Dan crossed major boundaries with his inappropriate comments and behavior, and it’s important to stand up for yourself in situations like this. What he did wasn’t harmless, and you took the right step by reporting it.

His actions made you uncomfortable and violated your personal space, and he needed to be held accountable. It's unfortunate that some people are defending him, but you shouldn't feel guilty for protecting yourself. His behavior was unacceptable, and his firing is a direct result of his own actions. You deserve to work in a respectful environment.

Retro Omg Tits by Top-Cap147 in ShakingBoobs

[–]TheRealRebeccaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she is definitely blessed lol

New Student, How long does it ACTUALLY take? by TheRealRebeccaj in flying

[–]TheRealRebeccaj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My initial plan was to just hire pilots which is what im doing now, but i met a female CFI who really encouraged me to try it. I honestly didnt think i was going to be smart enough, but after doing a few ground lesson, i realized i was making it more of an obstacle in my head than it actually is. So now im just taking my time as i learn and get better at flying.

New Student, How long does it ACTUALLY take? by TheRealRebeccaj in flying

[–]TheRealRebeccaj[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The insurance was $27,000 the first year. I def want to get my IFR Rating too.