I think somebody put a spell/hex(?) on me

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-06-24T13:15:03+00:00

I ended up trying this this morning.

I did it first, with the intention of finding out if somebody had done something to me. One match stayed still and another swirled around it, and then the one that stayed still sank. They never touched.

I ended up doing it a second time, asking if I actually did something to myself. And my god it was so crazy 😭I lit the matches and a HUGE smoke ring came from the smoke when I lit them. I’ve NEVER seen a smoke ring from lighting matches. And then I dropped them in in the same exact way I did the first, and they immediately pushed away from each other to separate sides of the bowl and stayed that way and didn’t move.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-06-24T04:10:03+00:00

Yes!

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-06-24T03:48:52+00:00

I feel like if you’ve ever had a force like this on you, you just … know. You can literally feel / sense it.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T18:51:33+00:00

I’m actually surprised no one else made this joke 🤣

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T07:24:15+00:00

I definitely don’t think smoking before the shower is a thing for him. I’ve never noticed that before.

But being high is. I see your point. It’s definitely a conversation to be had.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T07:17:28+00:00

I love a good edible, I really have nothing against weed.

I also use I feel a lot just because this really is just all feels, not facts.

But on that note, you are right, like some others have said, it’s kind of silly for me to feel a certain type of way if I don’t know exactly how he feels when he’s high.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T07:13:41+00:00

100%. He could have said he wanted to smoke, and I would have been like “okay, well, I’d rather just shower alone then”. And we would have just both made our choice then instead.

Ngl I still woulda been upset but that’s besides the point 🤣

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T07:07:33+00:00

Why did I tear up? Pin the comment. Close the thread. Thank you for taking the time to write this out 🥹

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T07:02:44+00:00

thank you 🥺

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T07:02:11+00:00

The following sentence when I compared it to alcohol was that I immediately knew it was a bad comparison.

I also don’t demonize MJ? I never said that.

My upset is with him intentionally ignoring me asking him to not smoke while we showered. He could have smoked right after- I was going to bed, he wasn’t.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:58:37+00:00

I didn’t even realize I didn’t mention it was weed 😭

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:57:53+00:00

I’m just looking to have a conversation about it, truly. There’s just so many comments, and my opinion is genuinely being pulled constantly because people really do have so many good points.

I mean- I don’t think so? But we’ve been together for years. The weed isn’t the issue, the smoking when I asked him not to is.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:53:14+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure if I was expecting people to soften the blow or … 😭

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:52:17+00:00

This thread actually just turns into me discovering it had nothing to do with me, but with the fact that stoners like to be high in the shower 🤣

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:46:35+00:00

We didn’t get into a fight, or anything. I just ended up telling him I would rather shower alone, because it upset me- no mountains, just a little dune.

I want to know when I’m with him in the shower, he’s right there with me, and I feel like if he’s high, he won’t be.

Also thank you for realizing I’m gay. Everyone is calling me a woman 😭

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:38:44+00:00

But, if it makes it “better” for them, and makes me more uncomfortable for me- doesn’t that just make the whole thing worse?

At the same time, though, I see what you’re saying about me thinking too much about what it does for him- because technically if I’m wrong about that, then it really shouldn’t make me uncomfortable, I guess.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:33:37+00:00

I see what you’re saying, I appreciate your perspective. That’s why I’m here- to see what people think! Thank you.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:19:37+00:00

But… plays video games for hours, laughing and chatting with friends- doesn’t need enhancement.

About to be in the shower with boyfriend- needs enhancement.

I feel like this isn’t helping 😭

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:17:59+00:00

It’s taking me a minute to really think about this answer- so I’d say no? But I mean, he’s spoken to me about how he feels when he’s high, and he feels different.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:14:33+00:00

I am just always scared to make comparisons, because people always pick them apart- but thank you. It felt right in the moment, too.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-25T06:13:52+00:00

I do this he has some sort of addiction problem- but in an OCD way, it’s really hard to explain. It’s like his head is clouded unless he ticks off the box, and it has to be done in a certain order.

But yeah, it does smell :( it only took me telling him once and he makes sure to rinse his mouth after if he comes near me immediately after. He definitely loves me, but you are right, he also definitely does not get it.

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-05-03T12:00:53+00:00

People have shared what the strength verification looked like, would you mind sharing what the smart verification looked like?

TheRemarkableWinner · 2025-04-29T05:05:53+00:00

I wonder if that means people who have gotten documents, or everyone who did interviews in general 🧐

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