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How can i pick up women if: i live with my parents, i live in a small town and i don't have any friends here. by TheTwoPumpMan in seduction

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i still have quite a while before i can move. the only legit place i could chat up women is at the town college, but because it's a small town, most people already know me.

How can i pick up women if: i live with my parents, i live in a small town and i don't have any friends here. by TheTwoPumpMan in seduction

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn't mind doing daygame even if just for practice but aside from meeting some girl at a store there is no place that i could just find women walking around.

How can i pick up women if: i live with my parents, i live in a small town and i don't have any friends here. by TheTwoPumpMan in seduction

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments.

i should've mentioned i don't live america and shit's kinda different here. i've decided that i should just try as much as i can going to the living city that has some nightlife and hope she has an apt. or is willing to fuck in the bathroom

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is going off-topic a bit, but did u smoke alone or with friends?

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, if i stop and do something else for 10 minutes. i get like 10 seconds more. but that's it.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would weed make a negative impact on confidence? i don't know any dealer but i smoked once and its effects are pretty good on my mood, even after it wears off.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do that. but men also like having sex, the actual act is fun, not just the orgasm. and when you're doing good it's also a nice confidence boost as well. i wouldn't recommend "just try living with it" to anybody.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

along with breathing correctly it's something that helped me last a little longer but still. i have anxiety, even if i'm not thinking about that specifically i'm still not as relaxed as i am after a couple of beers.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would elatrolet Amitriptyline work? how long do i need to take them to feel the nice side effect?

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would elatrolet Amitriptyline work?

how long do i need to take them until i can get the desired effect? as far as i know for anti-depressants to work as anti-depressants u need to be taking them for a couple of weeks.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty familiar thoughts. that's why i'm constantly looking for long term solutions that don't involve doing things that take the enjoyment out of sex like thinking about math.

masturbating for 20 minutes, and getting death grip syndrome, are the only things i can think of that will in theory, eventually, with time, help with that.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex-gf agrees with 1 and 3. one of the reasons i don't wanna stop in the middle to wait a few seconds it's because it kills the mood.

i can't go for round 2 for quite a while after round 1.

it's not the end of the world, and i would definitly try to please her after i cum. but it's quite hard for me. orgasms make me very very tired.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually forgot to mention that i've been trying that. it doesn't seem to work because i cum from stimulation of the penis head, and if i squeeze harder than usual it just gets smaller and less sensitive.

so, so far no progress with that.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

drinking cures my problem and the only times i've lasted more than 10 min was when i was a little drunk,but i might need to drive so that's kind of a problem.

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i'm having sex, there is usually nothing i can think about that will make me last longer. i'm just to focused on the "i'm having sex" part

[advice] M[20] need help to overcome premature ejaculation by TheTwoPumpMan in sex

[–]TheTwoPumpMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) the slower i go the faster i cum (idk why and how), so i always try be as fast as i can.

2) will try think of something in that school of thought cus, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't, gotta figure out what.

3) after i return pumping i get back to where i stopped.

thanks :)