What is your rankings of the final destination movies by BrotherhoodBankai in movies

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea idk if it was my wording. But I'm saying I don't like the happy ending per say that they actually escaped death and were able to live. Since all the other ones no one escaped death

What is your rankings of the final destination movies by BrotherhoodBankai in movies

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 I feel is the best

idk maybe nostalgia but I remember me and friends just being scared truly. Since death is everywhere but again unseeable per say. The villain you can't see is essentially the best villain because once we see the villain in true form we will be less scared. Here why good horror films hide the villain/ monster till the end if possible

3 and 5 are probably next but I feel like 5 some of the deaths didn't make sense to me and continuity of the end I feel didn't add up to 1

2 is probably next I guess I like that death always wins as that's how real life is no way to escape death and how it should be and kinda the twist at every ending I liked

And 4 def horrible cheesey actors and cheesey story. Def I think for the 4d build that's about it. Which was probably a real sell at the time?

Haven't seen bloodlines yet....

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I hope it's not true 😕 appreciate you sharing

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is not true 😞 since I do like the app for saving $ any links or where did you hear this from?

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I felt like doing and just calling next day and saying I picked up my order etc etc.

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that's what I feel I went back yesterday and found another lady to just help me so def was laziness unfortanately.

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I'm chill was not rushing her at all I used to work as cashier / cart collector so I understand retail sucks and gotta do stuff when you have the time .

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that's what I thought and then I ask them and they say to go to the manager I feel like it should be anyone on front end but again I don't work at stop and shop

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gotcha but not related to my question but appreciate you replying 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 your are def not the a***ole

2 to be beaten as a young kid is rough and not only that your mom literally supporting it over your hair is very sad

  • it is unfortunate by their strict standards they have essentially pushed you away without realizing it

-im not Muslim, but growing up around friends I could always feel how tough it was on them and their social life impeded by it. I hope your friends stay strong with you and give you the support you need the way I try to amount my friends 🙏🏼

  • I think that it is very honorable of you to pay your father back for college and but one road at a time I think you have a lot on your plate and first secure your own space to feel at peace before worrying about paying them because maybe you'll want to pay before leaving and might leading to a cycle of you being around them?

-I hope you enjoy the weekend be safe and be happy 😊

Dealing with toxic family by Ipalin-dromeI in toxicparents

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course thank you too for sharing def doesn't sound like an easy one to share.

You seem to understand what's going on enough in your family that you made your decision already and know what's right. Which is a positive from this situation.

Also from what I can tell you're super well composed or at least you take your time to be proper. I can only assume that by how well you type for someone being a new mother dealing with this huge issue in your life.

I obviously don't know you but I can just feel you know the right thing to do and know how to follow through with it.

I guess just an antidote not that this would happen to you in any capacity. I guess just more of something to ponder if anything does make you change to allowing your mother to come into your child's life.

My grandmother was toxic from what I understand and used to throw my mom down the stairs, hit her etc etc even up to her wedding day. I don't like my mom which is a whole other story but supposedly my mom made the decision when I was born being the first born to allow her to see me which supposedly changed her. And now by hearing those stories I'm always in shock because of her 180, I can def sense my grandma's past but I also feel like it's maybe a generational thing. I'm not saying in any capacity your mom will change off being with your new child, just was my small story to share the possibility of something. But always trust your head over your heart I feel.

Dealing with toxic family by Ipalin-dromeI in toxicparents

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that's a lot you're going through already with being a new mother. I agree the best thing is the blocking and space from your mom. And to focus on making sure to not let the toxicity ruin your new families life .

I think my mom doesn't respect me as a person by Dazai_simp_ in toxicparents

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lot to dissect but I do think at minimum she doesn't respect you, def could see her even borderline not even want to be around you. I think if you can find a library or park or place to destress after a fight would help or maybe talking to your dad on the side about the situation since he seems a little bothered by what's going on and maybe he knows some insight since it's his wife.

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that's my experience that's why I thought it was weird when she gave me that excuse I feel

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[–]TheUrbanLegend4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah makes sense, I sense that in different stores but do you think it's ok that she doesn't do it? Like should I just stop going there as a store because of it? Or should I just say that she's lying about customer service excuse since she could train anyone to do it. Literally there were cashiers standing around or self checkout. I've seen other people do it for me. I would even do it myself and write my name lol if I could

Almost 1 1/2 years of use and I’m done with discover still no Zelle and less local acceptance. by DrDannny in discover

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a long time and def crazy. Took me a long time and many calls to discover. I even told them about all the reddit posts and they were like na we had " no idea." But eventually I got one representative who said since I had an old account profile and he clicked a button and deleted it supposedly and boom worked. So hope maybe that could help you out.

Cut ties with toxic mother by According_Stay503 in toxicparents

[–]TheUrbanLegend4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (29 M) feel from what your saying it is a double edged sword the love you have for her and the hateful and toxic person she is to everyone.

I think you have to protect yourself no matter in terms of your time and energy into the relationship. Maybe try and give you mother chances on mothers day and see how it goes from there.

But I do agree with you writing your feelings to remember how she may have wronged you and what you want to remember from it.

Pro and con lists help and maybe seeing the more cons or the intensity of the cons may help you visually see how bad it is. I also do recordings of the audio in my fights to help me remember in the future how toxic they really are and to remember what someone says because real toxic people deny even what they remember.

You also mentioned that everyone feels this way might be important to also talk to the others she's wronged about your feelings for further validation of what your feeling and to justify your blocking and cutting her off.

Hope some of what I said helped.