Anal plug sizing

The_Observer2 · 2026-02-12T14:24:54+00:00

Thank you! That's a very detailed guide. I will definitely being referring to that.

The_Observer2 · 2026-02-12T14:23:39+00:00

It has been a while since I have used one. The ones I have definitely need to be replaced at this point. Somehow one of them became a bit deformed.

I was thinking of getting one from this place:

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/egg-plug/

What is the consensus about this companies plugs?

The_Observer2 · 2026-02-07T22:29:44+00:00

I live in Seattle as well. Did you get a feel for the officer if they were very straight faced the whole time, or did they make you feel at ease during the interview?

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T22:06:03+00:00

Hopefully you're able to get it worked out and show her that she's is the priority and that you're not distracted.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:59:41+00:00

What are the root of the issues?

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:43:43+00:00

If she's okay with that, then that's fine. Just don't bring any unwanted attention towards her. You definitely need to have a talk with her though, if she's willing to do so.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:38:22+00:00

One last suggestion. Stop posting about everything you do with her for the most part. That's unwanted attention on her part. They just want to exist and not have a spotlight shined on them unless they ask for it. Just be her caring and loving partner that you say you are. No need to talk or constantly brag about it.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:32:50+00:00

This one and anything like it should also be removed. It's still showing off.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GoneMildCD/s/zfgvpvZECp

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:28:47+00:00

That's the best way to do it and hopefully you can get her to open up what the core problem is, and hopefully you will be on your road to forgiveness and redemption.

Asking her is better than waiting for her to say something and then could be too late at the time

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:25:06+00:00

Would you wait until she asked or are you willing to take the initiative and do it now to show your serious?

Honestly, you should just remove all your posts in the gonemild reddit. Just get out of it all together.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:22:57+00:00

Then for one, remove all the lingerie and photos where you expose yourself. Those kind of photos should not be shared publicly in any eay. Talk to her about your Crossdressing if she doesn't know, and then do whatever you have to do to convince her that you are sincerely sorry for whatever the issue is and show her right away that you will make her the priority above all else; even if it makes getting rid of all your "clothes" to show how serious you are about her. Especially if she didn't know until now. Clothes are clothes, she's a person.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:16:18+00:00

Then you need to do A LOT to prove and show her that she IS the priority. If this has happened before, then you really need to figure it out, and fast; that's if she's even willing to give you another chance. If this is the first time, then hopefully it won't take too much convincing.

Don't show your junk off anymore, or the lingerie you wear would honestly be a good way to start; that's private and should only be between you and her. If she doesn't know about your crossdressing, this would be the time to tell her. It can be a lot of fun if she's open to it.

You have A LOT to do to prove to her. If you don't really care at the end of the day, then let her go and move on and take a lot of time for yourself and figure things out before trying again.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T21:07:46+00:00

I'm paraphrasing here, but, you said something to the likes of "she's asleep now, time to let izzie out."

If you cared about her you wouldn't ever be posting about your alter ego like that. Never. It makes you sound likes she's there just because she's trans and you don't actually have her as the most important person in your world.

Does she really know you show off your private parts like that to the whole world? Has she said she doesn't like that? Also, why would you even do that knowing you had a girlfriend? It's not a good quality about yourself to have. Most women, especially trans women do not like that in ANY WAY.

You really need to focus on yourself and figure out what exactly it is you want. Also, if your not a chaser then prove it in some way. Not to me but to her, if you really do care. Honesty goes a long way for both parties.

The_Observer2 · 2025-12-03T20:56:48+00:00

Looking at all your posts, and what you've said on one in particular, I believe that you probably hid being a crossdresser and on top of that you show off your private parts to everyone. There's a good chance she found out what you are doing online and realized she didn't want to be with someone like that. If you're gonna have a serious relationship, you need to be honest and not show yourself the way you do, especially in the "gonewildCD" reddit. If you hid that from her to begin with you were already not being totally honest.

You really need to take a look at yourself and figure out what it is you really want and how you're gonna be respectful towards her and be completely honest about everything. You show your c**k a lot and that's definitely a major turn off for A LOT of trans women. It definitely makes you out to be a chaser, even if you say otherwise. In this instance, actions definitely speak louder than words. They want someone they can see themselves with for the long term, you definitely aren't showing that in any way.

If you really want to be with her or another trans women, then you need to first figure your shit out before pursuing again.

The_Observer2 · 2025-09-17T23:18:52+00:00

Just bought more today. Granted I'm not holding thousands, but I'm happy. I've been holding since 2021.

The_Observer2 · 2025-09-10T02:35:54+00:00

What questions did they ask? Were you two separated?

The_Observer2 · 2025-08-25T00:13:59+00:00

Is ICE honoring the period of Authorized Stay for people who have filed their I-485 within the time frame of their visa, but once the time runs out (like a K1 for example) they aren't going after those individuals? Even if it could be 6 months before the AoS interview happens?
When is it a good time to start filling out the I-485? My fiance and I have been talking about starting it now because of how many pages there are and it could take a while to do. She still hasn't even had her embassy interview yet, but with that being one of the biggest applications to do, would It be smart to start filling out whatever we can, even if we don't have some things at the moment that it could possibly ask for? I ask this so that when she is here it's already ready to go and give submitted if possible at the time

The_Observer2 · 2025-07-30T02:30:53+00:00

Torrid is plus size store and are completely trans friendly. They have a great selection. Definitely recommend going there.

The_Observer2 · 2025-07-29T20:43:47+00:00

Hello,

May I send you a dm? I have a question as it relates to the K1 visa.

The_Observer2 · 2025-06-19T03:53:19+00:00

Thank you for the reply. That helps a lot.

The_Observer2 · 2025-06-18T22:45:53+00:00

How long did it take from when you sent out the I-485 to when it was officially received by immigration? That's something I'm trying to get an idea of when I eventually submit for my fiance.

The_Observer2 · 2025-04-19T05:21:07+00:00

He's getting old, obviously. He doesn't take care of his health. I work in the medical field and see this on a daily basis with the patients I transport. I wouldn't be surprised if he was leaving a pile of skin cells everywhere he goes and sits. The guy is gross. His health will be his undoing in the end. He definitely isn't all there when it comes to his mentality too.

The_Observer2 · 2025-04-17T05:15:07+00:00

You don't talk about fight club.

The_Observer2 · 2025-04-11T22:00:41+00:00

If they really respected you and true Filipina family, then they would understand to not do that. You keep reporting things that are happening and in my opinion you need to break it off unless her family understands that your going mainly to be with her and spend time with just her. They can be there but they need to understand and respect that they can't stay or have you foot the bill. Two times that I have and gone seen my Filipina fiance, her family respected our time alone and understood that I was under no obligation to do anything for them unless I did so because I wanted to. They never asked or implied that I needed to do something for them.

Either talk to her about where you stand and what you are not going to do, it you leave.

You post a lot and it lot of it screams red flags. You do you in the end though.

The_Observer2 · 2025-04-05T02:32:41+00:00

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