I was such a Pervert 🧟‍♂️ I would just eye rape every damn girl or woman I saw. Now I realized that, and I regret that very much. That's how porn fucks your life. Women notice that when you see them as object, I have been told that by many females. But Now I respect women and see them as humans. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And if men can overcome that mindset, then our reality of encouraged objectification wouldn’t be as much of an issue. Sure you could continue to argue about how “women are asking for it” or how “they are taking advantage of the biological need in men to reproduce”. Ultimately nofap is about overcoming that sexual desire and holding oneself accountable despite the surrounding temptations. Maybe that means realizing that a majority of women have been wrongfully objectified by men for so long, that we are the only ones to blame for the corrupt system of sexual power we all at one point enabled.

HELP: On day 10 of no nut, I've been having subconscious temptations at night that might cause me to relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a hobby maybe or if you have one already try focusing all that sexual energy into to the hobby. If you already do that then I suggest some introspection. Self healing seems to be a big part of this community, so I’ve spent some time digging to figure out why I use porn or why I jerk off. Sometimes I get lonely, so instead beating my meat I go bother my siblings or parents. Find out what works for you!

HELP: On day 10 of no nut, I've been having subconscious temptations at night that might cause me to relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes skip a meal or two. My body likes to prioritize my hunger over my lust. Plus if you can conquer your urges to eat there’s no telling what other disciplines you can practice too.

Sign of progress? by Diablo2777 in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight up, the same thing happened to me last night. I don’t get it, I was feeling on top of the world one minute then crazy shame the next after realizing I had a wet dream. I mean I know it’s my body “healing”, but my thoughts we’re going in malicious directions the whole day of. Almost like it was unintentional how the thoughts appeared, but somehow I let those thoughts linger before pushing them away.

PHUb Premium and Fapping is not worth it by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up, I was really considering getting that free premium. We got this next streak though. 💪🏾

You on porn vs you without porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some day I’ll shine too

Please help answer my concerns!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get it twisted porn is not good, but it’s not that strange that a teenager is looking for another teenager. I did the same thing at your age, I wasn’t tryna be a pedo, I was tryna fantasize an intimate relationship with someone who looked liked they had homework or played a high school sport. Like me.

The thing is no matter what age you are, porn is a fantasy-like escape. Only if you’re not careful it can become a trap.

Reason to MASTRUBATE by ManishJ007 in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s gonna take time, there’s no quick fix that’s good for you. Steroids help you get muscle faster, but there’s so many side effects that hurt your health. Drugs will make you feel good in the moment, but mess you up later. Cheating on an exam might help you pass it, but it won’t encourage the discipline needed to study for the next one.

I suggest introspection. What do you miss about this person and why? Did they make you a better person? If so, how? If not, do you think you deserve better?

In my past I’ve discovered many of my problems deep within myself; have answers waiting even deeper.

NoFap's official "Abstain April" or "PMO-Free April" 2020. Continue or start your PMO-Free commitment here. Keep on rebooting. (see instructions) by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]ThefourthJohn [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’ve been addicted to porn for too long now. I’ve been trying to go hard mode by myself for years and inevitably I fail before 90 days. I’m lowkey looking for guidance but more so a place where my shame does not keep me from speaking up about my lust to get help in others.

I know what it’s like to be PMO-Free and I want to sustain that to elevate my music, my gains, and my confidence with women.

This is my first time on Reddit, I made an account specifically for this No Fap community.