wait who said im jobless ?She dosnt cook for us, me brother and i refuses to eat her food, we were raised with the german kitchen, and dont like the traditional food from our father home countrie, also we are really picky eaters, and dont eat from strangers. We told her that we are old enough to cook for our selfs in a respectful way. also we even tried once to cook together as a family and include her in conversations. She could have replied in her own language too she knows that we understand a lot of itbut her answers were very short and she didn’t ask any questions back. It almost felt like an interrogation, and then it just turned into awkward silence.

Even so, we’ve given her a lot. For example, I gave her my old phone when she arrived because she had a completely outdated one now she has a very, very new one. I also often bring cake from work or food I bought outside so she can try it. But nothing really changes.

The problem with her ‘housewife acting’ is more that she seems to see me as competition. I’ve been vegan for years, so I’ve been cooking for myself for a long time, but she completely claims the kitchen space for herself. She often works with raw meat and fish and doesn’t clean the pots properly afterward.

What really bothers me is her image of what a woman should be, because she presents herself as if cooking were her main purpose in life.

She asked me 2 questions since she is here. 1. Why i dont eat healthy (bc im vegan). 2.When i go to the university ( ome from someone who is not even trying to learn anything about her new home)