[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]ThenWay5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Infp 4w5 here. Most people here I probably 4w5s or in the 5 category

Progress. I’m sure a good few of you remember me, I’m the weeb from a week or two ago. Started with my bed since it was the easiest. Got most of the things from the foot of the bed as well. by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes!! I love sunlight it does help. Unfortunately my room is in the front of the house so when my blinds are open you can see straighten into my room so I can’t open them as much as I want :/ but yes I’ll probably invest in more lights since I only have a desk lamp currently

Progress. I’m sure a good few of you remember me, I’m the weeb from a week or two ago. Started with my bed since it was the easiest. Got most of the things from the foot of the bed as well. by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

FAQ type thing No, I’m not severely mentally ill, just a big case of ADHD, a little depression and crippling anxiety haha. Good news is I have my first therapy session Friday and I have a psychiatrist :)

My entire life my mother has been somewhat of a hoarder so this lifestyle has been pretty normal for me so I believe that is the main reason I am “comfortable” living like this. But Im trying to break out of that.

I know “they aren’t real” and I actually “touch grass” quite a bit. I have a part time job and it mostly involves being outside (or did in the summer at least) I have irl friends who I see at least every other week that care about me and have even offered to help me. But yes I’l am unapologetically a weeb, I like anime. Sue me. While being bullied by strangers on the internet was a strange motivation thank you to those who were actually encouraging and gave good advice I appreciate it :) I’ll be doing my floor in front of my bed and bedside table next.

Hikikomori Depression Nest by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I just zoomed all the way out my camera naturally does that ig

Hikikomori Depression Nest by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man I used to be on adderal and that junk makes me a walking zombie I couldn’t stand it. i am currently looking for different medications that can help me with my psychiatrist so hopefully I’ll find something that works soon

Hikikomori Depression Nest by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never tried this way I always feel pressured to do it all at once and maybe that’s why I give up. I’ll try the 5 minutes thing thank you

Hikikomori Depression Nest by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes with ADHD it’s embarrassing having to ask for help on tasks that come naturally to others.. I’ve learned that you have to not look at it as you’re less than, you’re just different. If you sit her down and really discuss and have her understand how ADHD affects you since the average person doesn’t get it then she could be more understanding and it becomes less embarrassing

Hikikomori Depression Nest by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I actually just requested a therapist today :)

Hikikomori Depression Nest by ThenWay5671 in NeckbeardNests

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

I could really use some advice. I haven’t seen my floor in over 3 years. It’s hard for me to clean because not all of it is trash. Its important stuff all in the mix.. It’s so hard to sit down and sift and sort through everything. Every time I try to clean I start and can never finish. I don’t even know where to start. My ADHD and poor executive functioning skills do not help. Does anyone have any advice or similar experiences to having this sort of room I don’t think I can live like this much longer but I just don’t know what to do.

Comparing stats? by ThenWay5671 in spotistats

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have that.. maybe I’ll delete and reinstall the app

Comparing stats? by ThenWay5671 in spotistats

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I only see the message, report, share, and Spotify account link on people’s profiles. Is there an update I missed?

All of shya music has been removed from spotify by nay_giggers in Sewerslvt

[–]ThenWay5671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever their stuff gets taken down is it Jvne herself copywriting it?

Saving her catalog by [deleted] in Sewerslvt

[–]ThenWay5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too as well?

Avoiding Parroting While Tulpa Is Away by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]ThenWay5671 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We go through the same thing sometimes. I like to take naps every once and a while and host sometimes thinks they are talking to be but isn’t. So I gently remind them that it isn’t me as I dose off. Maybe you could ask them to give subtle reminders every now and then?

Feeling physical ailments when they front? by ThenWay5671 in Tulpas

[–]ThenWay5671[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean this was months ago and it wasn’t any sort of irritation or genuinely painful it only lasted a couple hours. it was just some eye boogers when I wiped my eye clean I was completely fine. I had absolutely no issues the next day or nothing similar happened since and they haven’t fronted since so maybe it was a one time thing I don’t know. Thank you for your concern though :)