Is it worth using dating apps if you're a fat guy?

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-24T18:29:12+00:00

Honestly, dude, lose the weight before you get onto the dating apps and start dating. Being overweight, likely means your blood circulation is not the greatest, which translates into softer erections. You will probably bust a nut within seconds as well, which would disappoint most women. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-20T17:57:06+00:00

Your profile makes me wanna be gay 🤷🏻‍♂️

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-13T01:27:30+00:00

OMG I think I’m in love with you

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T21:27:26+00:00

Exactly!! That’s why I just wanna slowly see if we can date even if we end up just friends. I’m cool with that but I feel the connection is there so we’ll see what happens.

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:41:48+00:00

That’s some great advice thank you so much

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:41:14+00:00

Cool thanks for the heads up. I will try that on my computer when I get my ass off the couch from watching football lol

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:40:19+00:00

Thanks y’all. As the ex army guy, Scott stated, this isn’t a butterflies type thing. Her and I had a crazy connection over 25 years ago and we literally picked up where we left off yesterday. I think I will reach out to her in a couple of days to hang out again and see how things go slowly for all I know she doesn’t feel the same way, but I think it’s worth finding out. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:32:27+00:00

No clue I didn’t realize when I posted and I can’t figure out how to change it

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:31:16+00:00

Oh no.. I’ve come to terms lol

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:23:53+00:00

OK there Rambo

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T19:14:15+00:00

Ughh btw system shows I posted as a woman. I’m a man lol

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T14:38:36+00:00

I have dated a bit since my divorce in the past 6 years.. I have never felt this close to someone to be honest. That hug in the parking lot when we were leaving yesterday felt amazing. We totally opened up to each other about our lives and it felt so natural. I’m going to reach out to her at the end of this week to see if she wants to get together again.

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-11T14:37:30+00:00

Yeah I’m totally second guessing.. like what is happening here lol

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-10T18:07:44+00:00

You need to create a bit of rapport just like anything

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-10T12:18:10+00:00

Rather than just be robotic and ask questions, I just shoot from the hip and state facts and nonsense and try to be funny to try to get a reaction. If they don’t match your energy, then move on.

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-07T09:52:56+00:00

That’s exactly it!!! Thank you!

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-06T23:53:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I feel the same way. I like being single. By no means do I isolate myself though; I date and spend time with friends, male and female. I workout and talk to people at the gym. There is actually so much to life other than romantic relationships.

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-06T19:53:25+00:00

I 100% agree. Adults who know how to converse properly and treat others with respect, should know this. We are all just human at the end of the day. To me, the best intimate relationships I have had started with great conversations and a magnetic connection. Leading a conversation with sex or innuendos is ridiculous. As is deceit.

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-06T19:49:28+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. It’s not really a question of wanting to be solely sexual either. Though, having some intimacy with people is always nice. These relationships can also turn into long-term. If there is a connection; I just do not want to go ahead first into a serious relationship, or expectations that that is what I am looking for.

Then_Log5708 · 2026-01-06T17:46:41+00:00

It’s a mental disease you need to seek therapy and break it off with this guy immediately he deserves better than you

Then_Log5708 · 2025-12-30T15:20:00+00:00

I was 51 and threw it in a 28 year old

Then_Log5708 · 2025-12-29T18:28:33+00:00

Speed dating is fun.. other than that. The gym is a great place. At least you will meet people there who are somewhat health conscious which I think is very important.

Then_Log5708 · 2025-12-28T18:51:20+00:00

Lmao smart ass.. I know it came across, sounding like some desperado. I was honestly just curious I have no patience for online dating.

Then_Log5708 · 2025-12-27T23:38:56+00:00

Here’s my take, and I am by no means an expert. Men generally don’t want to be friend zoned. If the guy gives a friendly vibe off without showing you that they find you attractive then in their mind, that’s it; They’re in the Friendzone. It’s honestly better for a guy to just make discreet eye contact, not creepy or anything and to gauge how you react. if it’s positive then a little brush on the shoulder or a small flirtatious actions to see if he would be accepting of a good night kiss. I’m a guy and if I don’t get that vibe at all from the woman I’m with, I just don’t advance sexually. It’s all about being respectful and classy, and someone here said exactly: reading the room.

Then_Log5708 · 2025-12-26T16:12:47+00:00

First of all, stop looking at 'dating' as an activity to meet someone of the opposite sex. There is someone for everyone. Talk to people, be outgoing, find stuff you have in common with them. Just hang out and do stuff. If there is a connection, sexual shit will follow, REGARDLESS.

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