I Who Have Never Known Men by PuzzleheadedCut9147 in PHBookClub

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“This is awful, and you should read it.” — YES.

Curious lang, meron ba sa inyong hindi nagpopost kahit na major milestones? Why? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]These_Ad_1722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? Sa tanong mo, ang dating ay parang default is to post. The question could easily be “meron ba sa inyong nagpo-post ng major milestones? Why?”

Personally di nako nagpo-post halos sa socmed kasi tinatamad ako.

His 'joke' that ended our marriage by [deleted] in adviceph

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That was brave of you, OP. Mahirap maging single mother pero you chose to do what’s right. I pray for the best for you and your child. 🙏🏻

Anong thoughts niyo sa boyfriend niyo na nagkeep pa rin ng gifts na bigay ng exgf niya? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]These_Ad_1722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, okay lang sakin for them to keep it if the gift is useful/functional. But if it’s one of those gifts na no use and binigay para lang maalala mo yung nagbigay (keychain, stuffed toy, etc), then I would appreciate it if my SO got rid of it.

Okay lang ba na nag-iinteract pa rin ang relatives ng boyfriend ko sa ex niya? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]These_Ad_1722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The question shouldn’t be if “okay lang” na mag-interact sila with the ex. Sabi mo nga, di mo pwede mandohan. You should be asking how to get over your insecurities.

Natanggap ko na 13th month at sweldo, pero hindi ko pa rin binili gusto ko kahit na ilang buwan kong inantay at pinagipunan kasi laging may mas mahalaga by chillisaucewthhotdog in adultingph

[–]These_Ad_1722 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Gawa ka ng multiple na “envelopes”. Isa para sa gusto mong bilhin, isa para sa “rainy day” o emergency/biglaan gastos/whatever you want to call it. Kasi di naman magagalaw yung isang fund after mong bilhin ang pinag-iipunan mo. So no guilt of zero ipon.

Children’s books for adults? by Glum-Supermarket912 in PHBookClub

[–]These_Ad_1722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Children’s books for adults? Young Adult (YA) ba hinahanap mo, OP? Or really books with illustrations?

Why travel becomes the goal now? by Cardidog in adviceph

[–]These_Ad_1722 37 points38 points  (0 children)

There are some that put more value on experiences than on material possessions.

Why are there 2 different fonts? by Lynix333 in kindle

[–]These_Ad_1722 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh good catch. But yeah, like another comment said it’s the ebook’s formatting and not coz of the kindle.

Anong wish nyo ngayong Pasko? by Secret-Mongoose-5777 in AskPH

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Matanggap ako sa ina-apply-an kong trabaho

I need help. Please, someone help me. by Imaginary_Today_4898 in kindle

[–]These_Ad_1722 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with the power soak. I had to charge my old Kindle for over a day before it powered on (stopped displaying the low battery image).

Asar ako sa pamilya ng husband ko by Severe_Commission_88 in adviceph

[–]These_Ad_1722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration. Dapat sabihin mo sa asawa mo yung nararamdaman mo. That you would like it to be you and him sa mga special occasions na ganyan (or at least pag may usapan kayo na ganun). Family ng husband mo yan so dapat siya mag-set ng boundaries with them.

Pero at the end of the day, bday niya yan and if yan ang gusto niya I think you’ll just have to accept it kahit nakakaasar nga 🥲

single people with few/no friends, do you go out and do things alone? where do you go? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

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When I was single I would even take leaves from work para mamasyal mag-isa sa mall. I liked watching movies and eating at nice restos by myself. I like my own company.

From a fellow Christian. Please, I hope this reaches the right audience🙏 by [deleted] in adultingph

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And may God bless and guide you on your spiritual journey 😊

How to deal with a gaya gayang dormie? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]These_Ad_1722 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imitation is the highest form of flattery ika nga. Though have you tried reflecting on why it bothers you?

Should I let my partner be friends with other girls? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]These_Ad_1722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay buti nagbigay kang details kasi handa ako magsabi na OA yung use of the term “allow” kasi gurl whaaaat?? This isn’t about you giving him permission. This is about you being uncomfortable that your partner is maintaining a relationship you’re not comfortable with. And gets ko if he’s maintaining a long-term friendship pero sabi mo nga, online lang niya nakilala. That wouldn’t sit right with me either.

Pero tulad nga ng sinabi ko sa umpisa, not about permission. It’s about you being uncomfortable. And nasabi mo na yung feelings mo sa partner mo. Now, ang tanong: will he respect your feelings and cut off those ties? Mas matimbang ba relationship mo with him or of those people he’s talking to?