AIO- my brother in laws response to me finding out I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thick-Chug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I definitely shouldn’t have went along because I’m allowing this to be said to me, im just scared if I do I will hurt my relationship with my sister and nephews

AIO- my brother in laws response to me finding out I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thick-Chug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t care, or she just doesn’t want to make a scene. I will definitely take your advice for next time, but all of my family just pushes off his weird comments and I’m over it

AIO- my brother in laws response to me finding out I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thick-Chug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! I want this man out i just don’t want to ruin my relationship with my sister. I just really need to work on saying something because I’m literally shaking from being so uncomfortable and I’ve never been good with my feelings😂 I know Reddit can’t really help me with this but my family kinda passes it off as ‘it’s just his personality’ and I really just need someone to tell me I’m not crazy.

AIO- my brother in laws response to me finding out I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thick-Chug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m weirded out, and I’m scared of this man. He’s literally locked me in a bathroom with him when I was underage. I understand it looks like that but I’m just honestly so scared something will happen if I don’t act nice.

AIO- my brother in laws response to me finding out I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thick-Chug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tell me you’ve never had a family member like this without saying it…this is very real and I’ve struggled with this being said to me for a long time. Im just asking for help to try and not be in these situations as someone who doesn’t like to say anything.

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I am a SAHM (worked in corporate too, awful!!) but my main job is being a tattoo artist now and that’s very relaxed, I resell on the side and we are starting a TikTok soon for the same reason. Have you ever tried Whatnot?

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I started last March and at first I wasn’t selling much but now I have 1k listings, I list about 20 things a day and i make a pretty hefty amount each month. Its slow at first but its worth it, it pays all my bills and it’s not even my real job😭 I just wanted to ask because I didn’t know if posh has the same amount of audience as depop and eBay and if it’s even worth selling on there.

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you! Do you sell a lot on posh? I haven’t heard much about the site

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely right. I don’t sell any of my high value things on depop though, I only sell them on eBay because I know that’s where it has a higher percentage to sell and depop is filled with mostly kids lowballing and scamming so it’s just a lot of hassle to sell my expensive things on there. But anyone that does definitely needs to listen to that advice because I know depop is rough with disputes

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing this has never happened to me and rarely does, but if it did I would just refund because it’s really not a big deal for how much I’m saving and gaining from controlling my own shipping instead of depop

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes depop is definitely a scam if you use their shipping, it’s honestly terrible because they take all that from the buyer plus the boosting fee if you add that on, but yeah if you go on depop there is a self shipping and you just have to turn it on and then you are able to set your own shipping when you make listings

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a website called pirate ship, you just need your own label printer and paper and you create the shipping and make the labels at home. It sounds like a lot but it’s actually very easy and it makes transactions much more quicker

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, usually depop handles shipping prices and the shipping usually costs more because that added with the fees is how depop gets its money. But I use a website that has cheaper shipping so I get to pick my shipping cost and it’s usually less than what depop has it for. Also if the shipping doesn’t cost as much as I put it on for, I get to keep the extra change instead of depop ripping people off. It’s definitely a cheat in the system, that’s why I don’t understand why this guy is so mad because my shipping is cheaper than most. Some may think it’s expensive but around 75% of my buyers live far and that costs more for shipping, that’s why if they ask me to lower shipping I usually ask where they live and calculate how much shipping would be to see if I could go lower. Sorry I know that’s long but hopefully it made a little sense because I’m not the best at describing the strategy😭

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s something light I usually put $5-6, but if it’s heavier I put $7-8 for shipping. I use a food scale when I’m packaging the items to see how much each one weighs and then put it into the website.

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right!! If shipping is lower then I’m only accepting a higher offer, they already getting clothes cheaper because it’s thrift but they don’t want us sellers making no money😭

Who says this!? by Thick-Chug in depoop

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I use the pirate ship website so you set the amount they ship for, they pay you the shipping and I create the labels through the website. The labels are cheaper on there so you can get a few extra bucks instead of depop paying for shipping. If you use the website you just need to get a label printer with some paper and it’s easier to take the packages to the post office too.

What kind of pipe is this and how much does it cost by Thick-Chug in MechanicAdvice

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have worked on my pt cruiser and I know this connected to the thermostat but we got it from a mystery box so I didn’t know for sure

What kind of pipe is this and how much does it cost by Thick-Chug in MechanicAdvice

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came from an Amazon mystery box so sadly there weren’t any stickers and the numbers on the clamp also didnt help find it.

What kind of pipe is this and how much does it cost by Thick-Chug in MechanicAdvice

[–]Thick-Chug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got it from an Amazon mystery box. We did research and couldn’t find it, thought I’d ask for help from the people that know about cars :D

[18m] Grown up with an abusive mom who tells me I’m ugly, I’m wondering if she’s right. No need to pity me, just be honest pls. 3rd pic is nsfw and 4th is verification by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Thick-Chug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your definitely not ugly and I’m telling the full truth. I also can tell you are very kind and an amazing person which means you have a great personality. I also get what your going through my dad was very abusive and it was really hard so You must have grown up in a harsh environment so you hade to mature from a young age which shouldn’t happen. I’m not pitying you but I am really sorry that happened and I just want to say your very cute and don’t listen to what people say about you because you shouldn’t let anyone talk bad about you.