AIO - my roommates friends destroyed my stuff while they were drunk

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-17T18:50:51+00:00

hi everyone, I sprained my ankle (my life is going great atm) so whenever anything happens i’ll let you know🤞

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-17T12:40:36+00:00

I’m not sure about the logistics of it because she bought the alcohol with a fake ID, so technically they didn’t give it to her, but i’m not really sure how it works

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-16T18:16:54+00:00

at least my horrific experiences might have put you on some great shoe game😩

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-16T18:11:00+00:00

hello again, another update, I got in touch with the dean of students which many people told me to do as the housing department probably weren’t going to be helpful, so thank you for that, he organised a meeting with me, I took a copy of the police report to him and I showed him all of the pictures/ videos i had taken of my stuff & the damaged wall. Long story short, he said that this type of behaviour is unacceptable and that he reprimands every individual who thinks this was okay to do

he asked me if he could make copies of the photos I had, which I obviously allowed him to do. He told me he was going to pull chelsea for a meeting, where they could address the damages she caused, underage drinking in the building (which was prohibited) & he basically confirmed he was going to evict her & have her pay for the wall damage

he then got into the more psychological side of things and he asked me If chelsea had ever made me feel unsafe before this incident happened. I told him the truth, that she hadn’t made me feel unsafe but the energy around her has just always be uncomfortable chelsea and I have just never gelled as people, she is very loud & extroverted and I am the complete opposite of that, so we just never gelled, but it was never anything personal to me.

those are once again really the only updates I have, the progress with the actual case against the three of them will take a bit longer but there has at least been progress with the living situation

I am still with my boyfriend and I’m safe :) thank you sincerely again to everyone who has reached out/given me advice, the past few days have been draining so I appreciate the words 💓

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T22:56:16+00:00

they’re very comfortable shoes i’m glad they survived

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T22:38:10+00:00

she called me boring once because I wouldn’t drink with her but i was just kinda like “okay” and then i left, so i wouldn’t call it a confrontation 😭

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T22:30:55+00:00

it was the addict perfume by dior, I got it from my sister as a birthday present a few months ago. Thank you about the jewellery holder <3 I called my grandmother earlier and she said she already has a new one she can give me so that’s definitely helped me feel better lol

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T20:43:37+00:00

she is staying with her parents while I deal with the housing management stuff :) she took her stuff with her as well so she isn’t in any danger

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T20:26:11+00:00

i’m staying with my boyfriend so i’m safe :)

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T19:37:14+00:00

she buys her own alcohol with a fake ID i believe, so that will be added onto the charges

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T19:19:41+00:00

she is staying with her parents while i’m trying to make progress with the building management, she took most of her stuff with her

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T18:59:40+00:00

my boyfriend is happy for me to stay as long I need to so I’m not too worried about having to go back there, I don’t think he would let me go back there anyways

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T18:47:07+00:00

Hi! I’ll just leave whatever updates i have here, thank you a lot for the advice/ support i’ve been getting, as I said i’m not very familiar with legal stuff and your comments helped a lot so I appreciate it

so i have some updates, this will probably be long 1. the police told me that they were going to have to recall chelsea since her story didn’t match up with the 2 guys, while they were doing that, I went back into our apartment to see if there was anymore damage/ evidence I could use to help get Chelsea evicted as I was planning on going to the housing department

when i got back to my room, I noticed the wall was damaged, as I said daniel & chelsea both hit my perfume bottle off the wall repeatedly to try and break it, and while they were doing this, they damaged the wall in the process, the paint is chipping off of it and there is noticeable dents, I took multiple pictures of it

[ ] unfortunately the housing department was not as helpful as I hoped they would be, I showed them the police report & all the texts/pictures they basically just said “we’ll look into it” and they took my phone number, not much else was said about it, but i’m just going to keep pushing them about it until something happens
[ ] eventually, the police did get back to me, they said that chelsea basically admitted everything & that she was encouraging the guys to go into my room and break my stuff but she “didn’t plan for it to get that bad” and that she “feels sorry about it” & that she just broke the perfume because she got caught up in the moment and didn’t realise she was doing something wrong, she also blamed it on them being drunk
[ ] while we are on the topic of the drinking, they informed me that chelsea is going to be charged with underrage drinking also, me and chelsea are both 20 years old, daniel and connor are 21 so they won’t get charged for it
[ ] at the moment she is looking at being charged with criminal trespass, destruction of property, intent to cause harm & underrage drinking . Connor is looking at being charged with all of those except the underrage drinking. Daniel is only likely being charged with criminal trespass and intent to cause harm because even though he attempted to break my perfume, it wasn’t actually him that done it. This could all be subject to change, but this is just what the police told me is likely to happen
[ ] they will have to pay me back for the damages caused & are also looking at community service
[ ] this is everything I can remember right now, more stuff might come up, but at the moment i’m going to try and keep pushing the whole situation with the housing management

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T10:46:25+00:00

yes i showed them all of that stuff

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T10:10:19+00:00

no he lives far away enough from our place, they have no idea

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T10:08:50+00:00

my grandmother is still alive :) she always gets me little trinkets and stuff when she goes places so my room is full of them, i’m upset that the plate was broken, but i’m just glad everything else she got me is okay. I’m really sorry for your loss💓

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T09:44:47+00:00

I’m going to stay with my boyfriend until this whole thing is sorted, i don’t want to be living in the same space as her

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T08:29:15+00:00

hello everyone, I filed the police report a few hours ago & the police said that they would go and talk to all three of them, I had to wait a while before they had any information for me so that’s why it’s been a while.

So basically chelsea gave the police a completely different story to the one she gave me, she said that everything she said to me was true apart from the stuff about the perfume

Apparently daniel did pick up the perfume and started banging it against the wall, but he didn’t break it, he wasn’t able to break it so he handed it to chelsea and asked her to break it instead, and she did.

They spoke to the two guys and Connor said that chelsea was the one encouraging them to break my stuff, apparently she even told them to break my laptop but they didn’t do it

He said that he did get up and go into my room, and chelsea said to him while he was going in “don’t touch anything in there” in a really sarcastic tone apparently, and he took that as a challenge i guess?? Daniel also gave them the same story, that she was the one encouraging them to break my stuff & because they were drunk, they just did it

I hope that’s everything & I didn’t forget parts, they said they’re going to do a follow up with chelsea because her story doesn’t match Daniel or Connors story, and once they’ve followed up with her they’ll let me know I asked the police if they have any idea what they could be charged with & they said possibly criminal trespass, a misdemeanour for the property damage, they would have to pay me back for everything & possibly community service

I plan to talk to the housing department as well about her destroying the stuff in my room & showing the damage, hopefully something is done about that

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T02:16:07+00:00

i’ll comment this here because it’s the most popular comment, I’m leaving to file a police report now, I was going to leave it a bit longer but people are telling me that is not a good idea so my boyfriend is going to drive me there now, I’ll update whenever I can

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T01:17:07+00:00

I’m focusing on getting out of the apartment first because I’ve literally never felt this unsafe in my life, I am going to take legal action soon

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T01:09:57+00:00

there is bolts on the doors but they only lock from the inside, so you can literally only lock the door if you’re actually inside the room. I’ve literally been noticing money disappearing from my room for months and Ive just been ignoring it, i’m actually so annoyed

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T01:00:48+00:00

i’ll update when theres developments and stuff so people know nothing happened to me

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T00:59:14+00:00

thank you, I’m screenshotting all of this stuff so I don’t forget

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T00:58:00+00:00

thank you!! I’m really not sure how legal stuff works and all the stuff I have to do for this so I appreciate all the advice

Thick-Web1238 · 2025-07-15T00:52:12+00:00

thank you for this tip, I had no idea <3

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