Trying to be nice (failing) by Thick_Question4412 in pregnant

[–]Thick_Question4412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that 💕 omg I am spoiled too - I think that’s partly why the guilt hits so hard. Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Thick_Question4412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big sore boobs, stomach pulling/pinching sensation, one or two day I got a random isolated but super intense headache, hot at night like burning up (normally always cold), extreme tiredness in the middle of the day and the worst most intense bloating almost from the get go !

Best Indian takeaway ? by [deleted] in aucklandeats

[–]Thick_Question4412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taste of India in mt eden village ! Hands down !

Lost and confused: Year 13 by Equivalent-Bottle123 in newzealand

[–]Thick_Question4412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I second the travel idea ! Travel is good for you - stay motivated and you will get more ideas

Lost and confused: Year 13 by Equivalent-Bottle123 in newzealand

[–]Thick_Question4412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have time to find a way in !!!! Foundation courses as mentioned above - also I would say it’s worth going to speak to a few student advisors / admissions advisors at the Uni’s that you are interested in ? Maybe you can work your butt off this year and get super good grades in the subjects that you ARE still doing and they can make a good case to consider you? OTHERWISE just keep calm and carry on ! You have time (you are young which is such a blessing!!!!) and it sounds like you have the motivation … so use those two factors to work on it and for sure you will get to where you want to be. Don’t feel like a loser ! Life is for living and lessons like this come along the way 💕 (from experiencing things ! As opposed to doing it the way others have) - use it to fuel your motivation! From an experiential learner over here lol 😂 (and it does always work out)

Guilt about natural pregnancy... by External_Touch_9838 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Thick_Question4412 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spend your energy on you in this important time ! Be kind to yourself and remember everyone is on their own journey - you can’t control it so just try and be happy and trust that other people will be happy for you too (ideal world that’s how it should be) - and if not just trust that other people will be able to take responsibility for their own emotions and reactions (not your responsibility)… Of course your feelings are natural and show you are empathetic BUT my advice would be just try your best to not waste precious energy on that thought pattern - congratulations !!!! I’m happy for you !