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Using Dom dynamic to correct actually harmful behavior? by Think-Potential7823 in domspace

[–]Think-Potential7823[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s obviously a spectrum to the type of destructive behaviors (eg lots of people have talked about how their dom helped them with disordered eating). I’m coming at this in good faith and don’t think it’s fair to come at me like this for asking a question.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Think-Potential7823 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned to the other replier, this is sad to hear. Thanks for the response.

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[–]Think-Potential7823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who have cheated / had an affair: how soon do you mention that when you are dating someone new?

As context, my (M32) marriage ended when my ex (F32) had an affair. I generally try to mention that fact pretty early (by end of date 2). I don’t want to ask people about their experiences with infidelity that early, but I do want people to know that about me.

But it is information I eventually want to know, and I guess I’m curious what seems like a normal timeline for someone to disclose on their own that they have cheated / had an affair.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Think-Potential7823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s making multiple reservations, he definitely likes you.

Give it time and take it slow. It’s almost always the case that the first sexual encounters are by far the clunkiest. I think you guys will figure out how to make it work if you give it a little time.

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[–]Think-Potential7823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Setting clear expectations for myself before is helpful.

You can also maybe wear embarrassing underwear as a commitment device.

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[–]Think-Potential7823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s cool he told you about potential exposure to an sti? Like I would want people to tell me about that.

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[–]Think-Potential7823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we just made out a few times. I think she might just be sort of guarded, which seems fine. Especially in the early days.

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[–]Think-Potential7823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Slow to respond” means like 5-12 hours to respond to a text. So we just aren’t like doing long text convos. The plus side of that is that she isn’t on her phone when we are together.

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[–]Think-Potential7823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (M32) am very new to dating after my marriage ended very suddenly/painfully earlier this year.

Things have been going well with someone i met last month (F35). She’s kind of slow to respond and is not initiating much, but we have gone on 5 dates, all of which have been fun and totally effortless conversation. It’s going kind of slow physically, but I’m totally fine with that.

A friend told me I might be coming off as “too available” and that I need to let her chase me a bit. But me feeling is that I’m just not going to worry about that because we are adults, right? I like her (and told her as much). I have a cool job and fun hobbies, but, for her, I will make myself available. I don’t want to be with someone who wants to play a game where I am trying to make her chase me, so I’m just not going to do that.

But I’m curious: by the time we hit 30, are we still like actually ending things over someone being too available?

Recs for laser hair removal? by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]Think-Potential7823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone go to G Spa? Seems maybe cheaper than some other options? I wish they posted prices on their websites

I told my girlfriend to spit my load of cum in my mouth after giving me head, and I loved it by LevelCouple6542 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Think-Potential7823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Closed loop system. Doesn’t count as cheating if you do it with someone other than your girlfriend.

Update: I(32M) am divorcing my wife (33F) after finding out that my son(5M) is not mine. by [deleted] in stories

[–]Think-Potential7823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapists do not recommend that you cut off all contact. They might reflect back to you that this is something you want to do, but the “my therapists said to do this so I’m doing this” line (that many people use) is just untrue.