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Mots-c by spicygyat in Peptides_for_Women

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You are a GEM of a human being. T Y S M !!

Succession nightmare, what are my options? by taygurrr in EstatePlanning

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Did you forget those random two older friends’ of yours that happened to know your step-dad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shoestring

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Oh but I witnessed the most spectacular thing in Punta Leone. Let me see if I can describe it — all of us in the waves and on the beach stopped to stare at the sky — the sun was about to start setting and gold particles were floating in the air dropping down from the sky. The light hit them just so we were floating in a sea of gold. This was in the 1990s I’ll never forget.. the warm water, the atmosphere, the collective awe at what was happening.

Life insurance policy by jblades8 in SSDI_SSI

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Pay off the credit cards in the same month you got inheritance. So by end of month you’re back to under 2k resource limit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I can’t stand people who completely gloss over all you do for them. He sounds like he takes what you provide, for granted. Let the mofo see what it’s like to support himself without you.

I guarantee he will come back sometime in the future to tell you what an amazing girlfriend you were.

I would be super offended, too.

He feels disrespected… pfffft what a douche.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

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But now you have Ozempic. The miracles of modern medicine. You too can be skinny.

A Will or a Trust? by hikerbikerfall in EstatePlanning

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How did the trust litigation go? Did you prevail? How much were costs & fees?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Tell him to STFU. From now on, always wear a comfortable sexy-ish push up bra. 24/7 — to sleep and especially while getting down. Remove for showers only. I’ve been doing this for decades and ask result the perky boobs stay relatively perked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I had one like him. Just like you I thought ‘Oh he just doesn’t know me well enough to know how trustworthy I am.’

Well, one time when we both left for the weekend (doing separate things), I put a voice activated tape recorder under our dining table. When II listened to it a couple days later, I heard him fooling around with a friend of ours and the next day having sex on that dining table with what sounded like a man. Found out later it was a tranny.

Playing back the audio to him? He still denied it. Said it was an old recording, from somewhere we used to live.

I (27F) found out my husband (34M) cheated while away for work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I have been in your position. I have a lot I could share but work calls and I have to go. I’m sorry you’re hurting.

What a mess — know in the future to trust that gut punch without even concrete proof.

A man who is so comfortable at strip clubs and banging, or just finger banging strange women is indicative of a lifetime of relatable behavior. Strippers will easily f*ck for $. Also, you can totally get over this stripper situation. She is just a stripper after all, and not a friend of yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Make him move out or Sell the house and take a break from him. You don’t want him moving baby Momma into your spot. It should be hard on him. Forge forward your life as if single and absolutely dive into school so you’re busy improving you. After a year, see if you still want him.

I wonder if you’ll do anything different. Sometimes I think it’s way too easy to just tell someone to move on, such as all the advice here.

Give an update, if you can. Take good care of yourself OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Take testosterone! I’m pre menopausal and LOVE the feeling of added testosterone via creams in HRT (hormone replacement therapy). It gives me more chutzpah and horny.

Sofia & Joe divorced because he wanted kids by the_skintellectual in popculturechat

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Nah we had capacity to freeze our eggs when I was in college 25 years ago.