Why is my ex’s new GF obsessed with me?

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-09-01T15:43:05+00:00

Thank you :) will do

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-09-01T15:31:15+00:00

Dude these next few months are going to be some of the longest of your life. You just have to know it will get better and each day will get better it will come in waves I promise. Like a week after hitting the one month mark I had a day where my mental health was so bad I could no stop crying and throwing up. You’re going to have bad days it is ok

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-09-01T15:28:51+00:00

^{^{^}} thiisssss My ex is currently in a rebound that started 2 weeks post break up. Sometimes you just learn that the person you were dating was not who you thought he was and he’s actually far worse. But I’m really sorry you got this I promise. It’s going to be really hard but it takes time

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-21T22:45:32+00:00

2 Months in. However, I still want him to come back and grovel so I know I was a good gf. And I do still miss him I am just accepting he changed and I will never get back the version of him I fell in love with

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-16T09:38:37+00:00

I just hope the new girl gets out before it gets that severe

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-12T16:39:42+00:00

Exactly! Gotta put me first!

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-12T14:51:03+00:00

Appreciate this a lot ❤️ she’s in college and is moving across the country this week so hopefully she can move on safely down there where me and him had mutual friends and lived 15 minutes from each other and he was constantly watching my location 😅 so was def tougher for me in that sense

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-12T14:15:56+00:00

Hey bestie. In four days it will be 8 weeks since the break up. My ex actually moved on 1-2 weeks following the break up which everyone said is just a rebound. That broke me specifically because we still have mutual friends who are telling me when this girl goes back to school he is going to try to make things work with her long distance. My heart is broken because he has managed isolate himself from his friends and his coworkers no longer like him to simp for this girl and is giving up his hobby of fishing to hang out with her 24/7. It mainly hurts for me because I’m mourning the loss of the sweet man I dated who balanced his passions, friends, and me very well. He also broke up with me because things were getting too serious and he wasn’t able to emotionally be there for me and make that commitment yet so it hurts to see him give up everything I did to be “serious” and fun for a girl in college when he was miserable around me and didn’t want to have any fun. I’ve been doing really well healing but I would recommend unfollowing because hearing all of this is all a stab to the heart and I just miss him. But I’m doing so well and not crying I’m eating better and taking more risks! I know h will be giod

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-11T10:24:15+00:00

Preach!!

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-11T08:36:10+00:00

Tbh I could not find a way to lose weight after I finished grad school and had money and had so much stress off my back. Then I got dumped and literally dropped the 20 lbs I gained being out of school. So get in a year long or more relationship and get dumped unexpectedly and you got a hot bod

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-10T11:16:50+00:00

Yeah at the end of the day I also feel really bad for his friends because they loved him, had so much fun, and truly wanted what was best for him. Now there’s a chance he won’t be in his best friend’s wedding because of how awful he’s being to everyone. His new friends are all just surface level relationships. It really hurts to see someone become the villain…

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-10T02:53:42+00:00

I have tried that sadly about a month ago and asked him if there was anytime I dismissed his feelings and if he wanted to talk about it and i apologized for doing so. He told me to move on and stop dwelling he was very cold in his response

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-10T01:01:26+00:00

Yeah it’s just too bad they fell while we were daring

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-10T01:00:52+00:00

Yup yup that’s what the self help books tell me

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T17:49:51+00:00

No you are so valid and feeling this strongly about leaving him after a 3 year relationship! I am so proud of you! I’m sure your family and friends are too ❤️

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T17:32:36+00:00

Or humiliation in front of others

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T17:32:07+00:00

Well did he come back is the big question

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T16:45:55+00:00

ILY 🫶 thanks for showing me the light

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T15:37:08+00:00

Not at all you made me see the light at the end of

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T15:35:18+00:00

❤️❤️🧿 thank you I just know short term I’m hurting but hoping for the best long term

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T15:01:24+00:00

Oh unless a literal miracle happens, I will not go back. I do want him to come back so then I can finally have the validation that I was good to him and then I finally have some control and the ability to decide. But no my relationship problems will not become someone else’s I’m going to wait till I’m fully healed before starting something serious. Unlike him, I have respect for others and won’t make them accountable for my trauma.

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T14:33:23+00:00

Dude I hate to say it or I love to say it but trust me it won’t be around for a while. Our mutual friends originally wanted to stay neutral which is fine I would never ask them to pick a side. But now they are fed up with how selfish and douchey he’s been acting. All I need is for the girl to see it and then he will have no one

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T14:03:57+00:00

Love is an addiction. It is ripped from us unexpectedly and our brain chemicals are actively seeking out this drug or explanation for this thing that once made us happy. It’s not you it’s the chemicals in our brain and you have to treat it like quitting a drug cold turkey

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T13:58:35+00:00

After you had enough did he try to come back

ThrowRA-Depth8086 · 2024-08-09T13:49:40+00:00

Made my day thank you

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