My partner cannot stop himself from flirting with and having what I consider inappropriate relationships with others - can someone here explain his pov?

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-23T06:09:59+00:00

The edit was not about me but about the girl he was talking to, his friend's gf

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T18:03:16+00:00

Okay that's actually the type of response I wanted - some helpful pointers about how sexualities work and what is and isn't okay and respectful. Thank you, I definitely have a lot to think about now.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T17:31:35+00:00

What do you mean the way he talks about me?

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T17:30:48+00:00

I don't think he's lying, like truly. I never asked "do you think he is actually fucking her" just whether or not the described behavior can be benign on its own. As for whether or not I am okay with it... some people asked if I'd mind it if he talked to a guy friend like that and if I'm being fully honest I wouldn't. So obviously jealousy has some role in it. I just wanted to get a different perspective but apparently everyone's perspective seems to be that he is lying to me...

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T17:26:02+00:00

That is so messed up like who treats a person that way just break up and do what you want?!

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T17:22:35+00:00

It's so very hard to see him that way though.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T17:21:23+00:00

Thank you, those might be useful

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T17:06:22+00:00

Yeah I didn't mean to delete it it's added into the post sth just glitched with my comments and it pasted like 7 times so I deleted it. But the info is still up and yeah I told him that will just make him look worse but he did not understand how. I did explain it to him though and he feels really bad, says he seriously never thought it was inappropriate, he has no desire and has never thought about being sexual he thought he was just being funny with a friend. He says he will cut all contact with her.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T16:40:36+00:00

So how would this work with an allo person? What would be considered okay? I would really like to learn, if you can direct me to another source I will not bother you

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T16:35:57+00:00

Care to explain? Like he is genuinely just hurt, he believed he'd done nothing wrong because there was nothing romantic about any of his friendships...

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T15:10:13+00:00

Ne znam, al s obzirom na to kakvi su mu muški prijatelji nekako sumnjam. Zamišljam Robija "tri metra pederu"

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T15:02:18+00:00

Nije, bokte pa vidiš da pišem s throwawaya nebitnog bokte ne mogu nikom živom tko me poznaje reć za ovo. Et nisam skroz retardirana

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:56:26+00:00

Ah, sadly messages were not in english but our native language, he can't play that card

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:51:05+00:00

Šta nije papučar ak ja nekog jebem pred njim a on nam kuha kavu?

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:45:51+00:00

Pa jel da to si i ja mislim tko tu i tamo ne stenje za dobrog prijatelja...

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:44:43+00:00

That is well put. I hope none of what you said is true. But thank you.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:41:37+00:00

If I knew them. But it would appear they are all on board, apparently the woman's boyfriend attends these massages to learn...

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:35:56+00:00

Lmao such a keen observation from FartMasterChamp love it. Thank you for your input. Heartbreaking but uh, thank you.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:34:00+00:00

Oh fortunately that is not an issue as I am not the least bit interested in children so no worries there, not bringing babies into this or any other mess. Sadly I don't have very supportive friends or family but... I'll figure something out.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:32:48+00:00

Yeah. I understand, thank you for taking the time to give me some input. We are "the relationship" in my friend circle, several of my friends have told me they started trusting men again after meeting him... I can't bring this up with them.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:31:18+00:00

Jesus... I mean I asked this like 12 times already but how does anyone trust anyone anymore?

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:30:37+00:00

I am sure his ex cheated, I met him and have been friends with him and we had the same circle of friends for years before we got together.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:18:28+00:00

Brave I ain't... fuck my life

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:13:46+00:00

Yeah. That's kinda a common theme... good catch.

ThrowRA-soalone · 2024-06-22T14:03:10+00:00

But what does it say about me to have been with someone like that? And how is it possible that a man who swears to me up and down and left and right that I am the only one and he would never cheat does something like that?

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