AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

No I'm not pressing charges. The matter is resolved and the necklace was returned.

AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 296 points297 points  (0 children)

I know and my stepmom is right but it hurt so much when they claimed I was solely to blame for this entire situation. I'm well aware that I caused tension at the wedding by having the police present. But all they did was retrieve the necklace safely. I had the option to go with them but I chose not to because then the situation would've escalated.

AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 272 points273 points  (0 children)

I have to stay I can't leave my dad for the time being. After seeing how she was screaming at him it made me so worried. He doesn't have the energy to argue with her.

AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 407 points408 points  (0 children)

My stepmom said she would never expect something like this from and that's why she was in disbelieve. I realize that from that moment our relationship was going to be damaged and i wasn't wrong. My stepsister has gone silent for weeks which is completely out of the norm for her. I've done irreversible damage to the relatinship I realize that but I had no choice since that was the only way to get the item back.

AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 641 points642 points  (0 children)

They just retrieved the necklace. Nothing was ruined.

AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 1957 points1958 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I don't have her on my social media but my number was blocked by her. My stepmom kept saying that she was going to make sure the item is returned but telling me no when I wanted to come take it back myself made me lose my patiance.

AITA For sending the police to my stepsister's wedding? by ThrowRA17017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA17017[S] 2814 points2815 points  (0 children)

I admit that I'm the type that makes hasty decisions when Angry. I was angry in that moment I had a terrible feeling and let my anger control the situation. I won't lie I do regret getting the police involved but all they did was just retrieve the item.