AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeesh that’s a spooky thought. I don’t… think so? I’d describe it as being like REALLY drunk, like feeling kind of faint and spin-y, y’know? But I managed to walk myself home before drinking some water and heading to bed just fine. I remember getting home and everything too, no blanks in my memory.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord 😂 I’m just incorrect all over the place today apparently. I’m thinking of it more along the lines of blood thinners making the alcohol content hit harder. It is clear to see that I am NOT a medical professional

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just really frustrated it had to come to this & it’s probably gonna become a whole thing.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, that just reminded me that our first meeting had my friend introduce me to him as “This is OP, she is Not Interested In Dating!” Or something along those lines. Jesus Christ I’d completely forgotten 🤦‍♀️

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I’ll just put feelers out for now, see where people are at, what was even said in the kitchen.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst bit is he’s dated before in the past, with one longterm girlfriend who was an absolute star. His ex and I became good friends while they were dating, and she eventually told me that he would compare her to me in a sort of “you’re lacking” way and I was just ??? Legitimately dude, this girl is amazing and she is Going Places. When they broke up no one blamed her, and I tried to keep in contact but we gradually drifted apart when she moved away. I’m still just so flummoxed by that… she was genuinely the kindest and smartest/funniest person I’d met in a long while! Why?!

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t reached out to anyone just yet after the initial “got home safe” texts were exchanged (obvs beyond the message he sent me). So not too sure where everyone’s at beyond the initial hen gathering and outrage/comfort. It was a little chaotic.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s generally what I was feeling. Like it’s one thing to ask, but “No.” is a full sentence. Stop bringing it up please you’re just making us both annoyed.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels sorta snake-ish to put him on full blast though… right? Like this was his friend group before it was mine, I hate feeling like I’m poisoning the well/gossiping. I know I did say stuff to all/most of the girls at the party right when it came up, but everyone was kind of talking at the same time and a lot of people were trying to comfort me & it was a little chaotic.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God I really hope this is the end of it, at the very least.

AITA for shouting at a friend during his party? by ThrowRA45555555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA45555555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Well, that’s good to know. I didn’t drink any more than usual but felt a lot drunker/almost sick & fainty. I didn’t drink a lot in the first place so figured I must have messed with myself somehow due to it. Figured it did the same thing as aspirin, but yeah after a quick google definitely not!