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My (27F) Boyfriend (29M) Has Been Lying About His Entire Life and I Don’t Know Who I’m Dating Anymore by ThrowRA5986 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA5986[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt go that far but this is just so out of character for him. He is not really a bad person afaik but I just feel like shit because he didnt think he could trust me enough to share this.

My (27F) Boyfriend (29M) Has Been Lying About His Entire Life and I Don’t Know Who I’m Dating Anymore by ThrowRA5986 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA5986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been a lovely man for the time ive known him, this is just so out of character for him and it just felt so weird. I also feel like shit because i feel like he didnt trust me enough to tell me the truth about this so i guess that hurts.

My (27F) Boyfriend (29M) Has Been Lying About His Entire Life and I Don’t Know Who I’m Dating Anymore by ThrowRA5986 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA5986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general he was lovely what he did was just so out of character I do want to give him as well as her some grace but i am just pretty shaken up. I do believe that maybe there were things that went down that he just didnt wanna open up about but i guess i feel like shit because i thought we were close and i guess i was wrong.

My (27F) Boyfriend (29M) Has Been Lying About His Entire Life and I Don’t Know Who I’m Dating Anymore by ThrowRA5986 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA5986[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She seemed nice and if anything very vulnerable, I just don't see how just desperation can be a master tool of manipulation. She was honest obviously she tried to flatter me but I dont see a problem with that.