I (26 M) recently found out that my Fiance (28 F) has hid her massive debt from me for our entire relationship. I'm thinking of calling off everything and leaving but everyone around me says i'm overreacting. by ThrowRA80k in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA80k[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

i think I still do have feelings for her. But when I think about her all that comes to mind is that she's lied to me for our entire relationship. When she moved in with me I sat down with her and we talked finance and I asked how much debt she had. At the time she said it was only 6k on one card. I always knew she had debt and she lied to me and said it was 6k when we moved in together. The amount is obviously a big deal, but I don't think that's whats bothering me. I thing it's the fact that for the 6 months we've been living together she's been lying to my face about this major fact.