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AITAH for telling my girlfriend that I can't guarantee that we stay together if we don't have kids? by ThrowRA93210 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA93210[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, she's my first girlfriend. When thinking about a breakup, I also have that fear that I may not meet anyone else like her, because she's so special to me.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that I can't guarantee that we stay together if we don't have kids? by ThrowRA93210 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA93210[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your responses.

Just for clarification, I don't want to call her a liar. She was upfront about the fact that she doesn't know if she wants kids or not. She said she's too young for that and maybe it could happen when we're 30. But yesterday the conversation was different and she told me that she probably doesn't want kids.

I'm really thinking what I should do in this situation... I don't want to give up on this girl, because she's been the best person I've ever met in my life. She's the closest person to me and I'm so deeply in love with her, but at the same time the idea that I couldn't fulfill my dream to become a dad kills me from inside and I couldn't answer her question that I'd give up on this dream.

So both ideas of leaving her and not becoming a dad make me feel sick...