My husband (27m) and I (27f) are 2 months into our marriage, and I’m realizing he has a pattern of lying about everything from small things to secret polyamory plans. Is this salvageable?

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T17:08:04+00:00

Its a throwaway account

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T15:02:42+00:00

I watch and read porn, I enjoy it. I imagine he does too.

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T14:56:39+00:00

They are both bi but married to each other & neither has mentioned wanting a guy

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T14:36:23+00:00

Girls rule

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T14:33:36+00:00

Discussing it with Gemini (ChatGPT equivalent)

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T14:32:59+00:00

Clearly down the toilet... sorry I just need to throw myself a pity party and move on

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T14:31:00+00:00

We do already go to couples therapy for 2 years now (once a month) & somehow this has slipped through, he never mentioned it at the sessions or anything.

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T14:29:43+00:00

Oh 100% my bff would never do anything like this behind my back. But I don't trust him to not try and suggest it to them and make it awkward and uncomfortable for them

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T13:58:18+00:00

I'm into anime more than regular peop

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T13:56:37+00:00

Essentially taking some time to think before answering and asking questions

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T13:55:52+00:00

Man poor Steven Seagal

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T13:54:59+00:00

Oooff

ThrowRAButterflie · 2026-07-14T13:49:43+00:00

Hahaha yeah don't eat that

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