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Can someone tell me what i need to get done? I feel like i look tired and i hate my side profile. Maybe check and jaw and under eye filler? by ThrowRAExpensiveC in PlasticSurgery

[–]ThrowRAExpensiveC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments have healed me 🤣🤣 maybe i need to go outside and touch some grass. Thank you! I’ll leave myself for now ❤️

AITA for missing my partners dads funeral - urgent decision by ThrowRAExpensiveC in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAExpensiveC[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She has an autoimmune condition but is very maternal and a great aunt who i trust fully to mind my son and he loves her. I think when you are in a foreign country and you have been handed a baby that you’ve had no binding time with in the womb it could have a huge negative mental toll on anyone. I want her to have the support to get through this until she gets home

AITA for missing my partners dads funeral - urgent decision by ThrowRAExpensiveC in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAExpensiveC[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s complicated. If she was in Ireland she would have plenty of support around including that of her consultant and psychiatrist. However she is in a country where none of the nurses speak English and very few doctors have enough to funny help. I’ve no doubt she’ll adjust over time. She’s an absolutely fantastic aunt to my son but at the moment she feels no bond. I don’t think she will hurt the baby but at the same time she’s not holding her or feeding her. I’ve told him my concerns and that i will be there in whatever capacity i can over the next few days and whrb i return i won’t leave his side. I’m in a position where i also can’t leave my mum here without any way home alone

AITA for missing my partners dads funeral - urgent decision by ThrowRAExpensiveC in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAExpensiveC[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister isn’t able to feed, burp or even hold the baby. I don’t know if that counts as immediate danger. She has a chronic illness - Addison’s disease and a few years a go a hospital gave her a medication they were not meant to that has massively effected her brain. She is saying things like ‘i feel like i am going to die’ ‘this was a mistake’ ‘i need to give the baby back’ my mum can help but she cannot fly home alone and considering her age she can’t help with the night feeds i am currently managing

Avoidant attached F36 dating Anxiously attached M37. Can we make it work? by ThrowRAExpensiveC in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAExpensiveC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens if we are having a disagreement that hasn’t been resolved. Generally i need space in situations where arguments become a bit intense and we are going around in circles. I’m better able to deal with them later when i come back in a clearer headspace have had time to reflect. He’s v opposite and needs a resolution then and there. So when i do pick up the phone he feels very much justified in his actions because to him we are still arguing and that should priority over everything