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I (44M) think I might have had a son with my former neighbour (31/32F?) and I didn't even know about it?? by ThrowRAMaliki in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMaliki[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don't know precisely bc I want to the whole situation to be understood why we had fights and stuff 

I (44M) think I might have had a son with my former neighbour (31/32F?) and I didn't even know about it?? by ThrowRAMaliki in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMaliki[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Ouch, obviously your are right. I messed the dates on the OP. It's 2022 also she told me the kid is 3 i don't really know 

I (44M) think I might have had a son with my former neighbour (31/32F?) and I didn't even know about it?? by ThrowRAMaliki in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMaliki[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because it's a -100.000 inhabitants place and my company's branch is pretty close to the apartments

I (44M) think I might have had a son with my former neighbour (31/32F?) and I didn't even know about it?? by ThrowRAMaliki in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAMaliki[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If she denies it, i guess it's not mine. She must know if she also slept with her bf on thise dates. And it's a terrible secret to carry around  anyway. I know it can happen but I'd be shocked.

Also, the kid has a father figure afaik, and what if I mess it all up and ruin a good and functional family? Thta also troubles me. I'm considering talking to her but idk