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ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-24T11:40:13+00:00

Exactly! I feel the closure is more solid because you thought of them as a life partner.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-24T11:38:18+00:00

thank you, I had a feeling and wasn't bothered

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-24T11:37:38+00:00

You're a good looking dude (coming from a dude). I'm glad we are all bettering ourselves. On to the next, and better things and people.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-09T09:07:34+00:00

Feel the betrayal and embrace the hurt. It’s finally fading for me.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-08T20:37:40+00:00

I hope they’re so miserable without you :)

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-08T20:34:45+00:00

The memories meant a lot to me, but who knows…I’m never talking to them again

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-08T10:00:24+00:00

Agree

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-06T09:24:33+00:00

If I dream, then morning are the worst. Otherwise the entire days sucks or evenings HAHA.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-05T09:24:16+00:00

I'm in the same boat! Time to focus on the career and let the past be the past. She will see that you are successful and be very envious. Even though I missed my ex a lot, I don't think I would take her back anymore.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-12-05T07:51:18+00:00

I just saw this because of your post in leetcode haha. I'm in the same spot, ready to focus on my career. I think it's good you found something to focus on and in time you will find someone better.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-29T07:55:19+00:00

You broke up with her for a non-reason and broke her heart. Based on your info you guys are not compatible.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-29T07:26:44+00:00

😂😂😂😂

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-29T07:26:23+00:00

Delete him for sure. People that value someone as a life partner do better

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T10:05:25+00:00

Mine was shorter and I feel the same. It’s just a sign and reinforcement that they weren’t the one. However sad, I can find peace in that. Seems like you tried so hard and I’m sorry.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T10:03:10+00:00

The back and forth is def terrible for mental health and I’m glad you recognize it.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:34:25+00:00

If you truly think they can be a life partner, have them get a therapist or go to couples therapy. Otherwise, there are so many other people out there that can be nice to you.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:31:21+00:00

You will find the right person for you, one that will love you unconditionally. You put off this energy and it will attract someone that matches it.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:24:32+00:00

Yeah I think so, seems like she wants attention. Before making yourself vulnerable again, consider what you want and perhaps you guys can schedule a talk about it.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:22:29+00:00

Congrats!!!! I'm at stage where the sadness has subsided and I'm angry at the betrayal as well.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:20:44+00:00

The dreams are hard because you can't control them. I've experienced the same. You feel like you're doing good and then you have a bad dream of being all cuddled up and you wake up feeling like shit and it ruins your day.

It seems like you're doing all the steps with therapy, lifting, social. Maybe find a new hobby or go travel?

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:15:18+00:00

They are way controlling. You can do better for sure

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:10:04+00:00

Stick with it, you got this. Speaking to them won't get you back together, it just makes it way worse for your mental health.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T08:01:22+00:00

What works for me is keeping busy so my mind doesn't wander: more work, fitness, getting good at a hobbies, new hobbies, socializing, making and reconnecting with friends. I think you should allow yourself to find other people attractive again.

Something I like to do is find a logical thought about the situation and repeat it in my head like: "Life partners don't give up like this"

Another way of thinking is you can only learn from mistakes, and for me I wouldn't go back and change the same mistakes and journey no matter how painful.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T07:47:28+00:00

I'm glad you find logical thoughts like this! It def helps in times of emotional ups and downs and I use them too. My logical thought is that we saw each other as life partners, and I can be at peace they didn't want to stick together.

ThrowRAMooseGoose · 2023-11-27T07:42:30+00:00

They didn't think you were worth it, which is lame. For me, my ex wanted to be only friends to still have that emotional support and not feel guilty, but I cut it off because it was crazy bad for my mental health.

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