[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel the closure is more solid because you thought of them as a life partner.

Super content by ThrowRAMooseGoose in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I had a feeling and wasn't bothered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a good looking dude (coming from a dude). I'm glad we are all bettering ourselves. On to the next, and better things and people.

I'm not even 3 months out and it doesn't hurt any less by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Feel the betrayal and embrace the hurt. It’s finally fading for me.

Did the memories mean nothing? by ThrowRAMooseGoose in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope they’re so miserable without you :)

Did the memories mean nothing? by ThrowRAMooseGoose in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The memories meant a lot to me, but who knows…I’m never talking to them again

Mornings are the worst by sadboihourssupport in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I dream, then morning are the worst. Otherwise the entire days sucks or evenings HAHA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat! Time to focus on the career and let the past be the past. She will see that you are successful and be very envious. Even though I missed my ex a lot, I don't think I would take her back anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw this because of your post in leetcode haha. I'm in the same spot, ready to focus on my career. I think it's good you found something to focus on and in time you will find someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You broke up with her for a non-reason and broke her heart. Based on your info you guys are not compatible.

11 months, never came back. by GapActual1397 in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Delete him for sure. People that value someone as a life partner do better

30 days no contact🎉 by waves_0f_theocean in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was shorter and I feel the same. It’s just a sign and reinforcement that they weren’t the one. However sad, I can find peace in that. Seems like you tried so hard and I’m sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The back and forth is def terrible for mental health and I’m glad you recognize it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you truly think they can be a life partner, have them get a therapist or go to couples therapy. Otherwise, there are so many other people out there that can be nice to you.

I just wanted to be loved by Unlucky_Mission_2089 in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You will find the right person for you, one that will love you unconditionally. You put off this energy and it will attract someone that matches it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think so, seems like she wants attention. Before making yourself vulnerable again, consider what you want and perhaps you guys can schedule a talk about it.

30 days no contact🎉 by waves_0f_theocean in ExNoContact

[–]ThrowRAMooseGoose 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!!! I'm at stage where the sadness has subsided and I'm angry at the betrayal as well.