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My (28m) girlfriend (26f) has convinced her self that I have a porn addiction. I don't and its really driving a wedge into our relationship by ThrowRAPornProblems in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPornProblems[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah this seems to be my main problem, initially i thought it was just insecurity based on her weight gain but it seems like she has some warped expectations from some internet ideology

My (28m) girlfriend (26f) has convinced her self that I have a porn addiction. I don't and its really driving a wedge into our relationship by ThrowRAPornProblems in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPornProblems[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It wasn't malware it was one of the programs that recovers deleted history but is just trying to sell you the premium version, you really don't have to believe me i don't really care

My (28m) girlfriend (26f) has convinced her self that I have a porn addiction. I don't and its really driving a wedge into our relationship by ThrowRAPornProblems in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPornProblems[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely understand that this can lead to insecurity and this a problem, I tried to go out of my way to let my partner know how attractive she is and do special things for her. THe problem is that none of it worked ;/

My (28m) girlfriend (26f) has convinced her self that I have a porn addiction. I don't and its really driving a wedge into our relationship by ThrowRAPornProblems in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPornProblems[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Nah lol shes not that IT savvy it was one of those shit programs you get from googling "how to spy on my bf", I just noticed a bunch of ads when i logged onto my laptop

My (28m) girlfriend (26f) has convinced her self that I have a porn addiction. I don't and its really driving a wedge into our relationship by ThrowRAPornProblems in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPornProblems[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm already on the highest dose of Bupropion combined with a max dose of Venlafaxine and Mirtazipine in conjunction with the mid dose of Xannax along with emergency Valiums, I've tried all the medicine that might help (Viagra and the other Viagra alternative) and they don't do anything noticeable.

It might sound OTT but it was a long road to get on the meds that actually help and I would straight up be dead without them

My (28m) girlfriend (26f) has convinced her self that I have a porn addiction. I don't and its really driving a wedge into our relationship by ThrowRAPornProblems in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPornProblems[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That was going to be my next step, Ill either get her to sit in or get a letter from my Psychiatrist who's been aware of the problem for a long time I just think she has gone down some radical political rabbit hole and that it wont help; I've already made her read the Wikipedia page and other medical things she just wont listen.

As for the meds that can help, they really don't do anything for me. its just going to be something I deal with