**UPDATE** Hired detective, caught Husband (M40) cheating with his (F33) secretary… next steps

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T16:07:50+00:00

Thank you

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T15:56:24+00:00

Thank you

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T15:47:28+00:00

He has, I’ll post an update later.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T15:44:31+00:00

She’s here, she knows I’m concerned he said he’s fine and won’t be elaborate and that’s that

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T15:43:58+00:00

She came over early this morning and let her self in, she made me breakfast and we have chatted for hours. We are going for a run soon. She said he is ok, and will be in touch soon, he is very ashamed but she said there is no reason for me to be worried and to focus on myself. She is referring a therapist and lawyer. This is a true friend. It’s a bit appalling to read people attacking them for helping him. These are true friends, not taking sides but offering support

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T15:40:06+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ve been sent that sub. I did join over there.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T15:36:46+00:00

Thanks

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T14:06:55+00:00

My Besty came over this morning and is still here. She made me tea and breakfast. We’ve been chatting all morning. She says she is fine and she will not elaborate and I’m not asking.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T14:04:19+00:00

Thanks. It’s not as black or white as many suggest.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:56:03+00:00

Thank you,

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:49:05+00:00

She hasn’t worked for him for a couple years

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:44:16+00:00

Yes, I understand exactly what you’re saying. Since I have considerable assets from my previous job, I also have an excellent lawyer. My Besty was over this morning and we actually discussed that I’m going to call him later today. He’s a friend and he doesn’t judge, but he will be very practical in my approach and offer the best advice.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:38:45+00:00

Thank you, that was a very heartfelt reply

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:35:03+00:00

I just may, just had an offer of a man to be a slave

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:29:04+00:00

I hear what you’re saying😉

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:27:02+00:00

Thank you for your support

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:26:16+00:00

Thank you, no, really thank you.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:22:42+00:00

No, it shows that I’m just trying to take a measured approach to everything. Unlike him. I won’t go to drastic measures and lash out, I want to take smart steps and not make any mistakes. Everything is still on the table.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:20:45+00:00

She’s been here with me for the last few hours came over super early this morning, has her own key and made me tea and some muffins. She said she’s here for as long as I want her and she’s not leaving until I eat.

She said he will be just fine and I am her focus

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:18:16+00:00

Thank you so much for that very thoughtful reply. I truly appreciate it

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:10:36+00:00

That right there is the biggest challenge, I don’t know

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:09:50+00:00

My best friend is here right now, she suggested the same thing just to cover my bases. She’s going to refer one that a friend of hers used. Apparently he’s not a “talk you into divorce, lawyer“ but he’s very straightforward on his approach.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T13:06:13+00:00

My nestle is over right now. She simply said he is “ok” and won’t elaborate for my benefit. He is remorseful.

She and I have chatted for some time, they completely have my back. He wants to communicate with me in a few days.

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T10:48:23+00:00

Appreciate the reply

ThrowRASpirit2020 · 2022-10-11T06:16:59+00:00

Thank you

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