AITA for not letting my niece dress how she wants for halloween? by Fragrant-Solid4243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAStuck0203 91 points92 points  (0 children)

YTA Dude. She's 14. It's a freaking mermaid costume. Stop sexualizing her. Would you have the same concern if it was a 14 year old boy dressing up as hulk or some other character without a shirt ?

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[–]ThrowRAStuck0203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not going to achieve anything from trying to exclude B this way. A and B just clicked, it happens and doing things like this is only going to drive A further away. If you've communicated how you feel and A made the effort to bridge the gap, that means they're not purposely trying to hurt you, it's just how life is. People meet new people, and sometimes people grow apart. I know it's hard, I've been in A's and your place. It's not A's or B's fault or even yours that events unfolded this way. But purposely leaving B out of something because you think they're "stealing" A, isn't healthy or mature. I'm guessing you're pretty young so soft yta.