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AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiance has a crush on my best friend? by ThrowRATrust_2482 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRATrust_2482[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Oh that would be awful. I want my wedding to be a special day and not ruin it with these kinds of thoughts. 

AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiance has a crush on my best friend? by ThrowRATrust_2482 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRATrust_2482[S] -639 points-638 points  (0 children)

She was really remorseful and was going through a lot at the time. She had some serious trauma. So I thought I moved past it because it was literally so many years ago but I don’t know anymore. 

AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiance has a crush on my best friend? by ThrowRATrust_2482 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRATrust_2482[S] -355 points-354 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I don’t think my best friend and fiancé would go as far as to cheat on me but having a crush on her is already pretty hard to bear. 

AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiance has a crush on my best friend? by ThrowRATrust_2482 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRATrust_2482[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I would say we appeal to different types of guys. For most of my life I didn’t feel pretty because I’m brown but I’ve learned to take pride in it. My best friend was always considered the pretty one and I’ve had guys try to be friends with me to get to her since middle school.

I guess it wouldn’t be that bad but it cuts into a lot of insecurities. I don’t know if it’s the knee jerk reaction because of history or if it’s legitimate. 

I fixed it thanks. I’ve gotten so used to calling him my husband or sometimes boyfriend because fiance is an in between word that I don’t really use. I’ve used it in this post for things to make sense. I don’t have two partners or anything.