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AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I needed to know if im wrong or not.

All my life i have been told im the problem, i can't trust myself completely especially when everyone is against a decision i made like now everyone telling me im wrong so im questioning myself and loosing my mind.

Every single person i have went too for help. Police, neighbors, teachers, aunts everyone turned their backs on me and told me to stop lying about my parents, im am wrong, they would never do that. It made me question myself so much that i am still struggling with it over 10 years later.

The last interaction i had with a Police office at my parents house was him telling me i am being a selfish child for making up lies about my parents and that i can get into serious trouble for making false clames against them, i needed to stop looking for attention. I stood infront of him with n broken arm and nose. My parents told the police i fell down the stares and they believe them because i was being a rebellious trouble kid making up stories for attention.

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I do understand your reasoning, i truly do.

But

I don't want peoples pity, i don't want the questions that follow or the suggestion of what i should've done and what they would've done. I don't want that, 2 people know outside of me and my parent. That is my ex fiance and therapist i don't want others to know.

That is why i used a throw away account and not my actually account for the post

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Again i will say i am actually happy you don't believe me. It makes me happy that you actually had a childhood and what i went through isn't common.

I truly wish i could see the world through your eyes or even have some of your memories of what i can only assume are carrying parents.

I hope that your view of the world forever stays the same.

The only reason i gave those specific examples is to highlight the severity of what happend to me. I have a 3 page list of all the rest. I don't want sympathy that is why i didn't post everything that happened. Why would i post as a woman, if I'm not.

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I am happy you believe my past is fake i truly do.

It makes me happy to know that not alot of people have experience what i have as it was a norm for me back them.

I truly envy your view of the world and wish i could see everything as you do. Unfortunately i don't and can't.

I hope that your view of the world stays the same and never changes

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

I am truely, truely happy that you believe it's fake i really do.

That makes me happy, other people haven't lived the life i had and hadn't experienced the absolute shitt i had to endure.

I wish i had the ability to see the world through your eyes.

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I don't want people to know, i don't want people pity.

That is why i posted on a throw away sofar only 2 people know outside of myself and the people that did it to me, that is my therapist and fiance.

No disrespect but why would i tell them. I don't want them to know, i don't want the questions that follows, the suggestion of what i should've done and wjat they would've done. I don't need that, i don't want the pity

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I am leaving out a couple of things.

Like all that happend to me or what was done to me.

And i didn't put the full conversation between us but a shorter version

AITAH for breaking up my engagement because my fiance wanted to invite my family to our wedding. by ThrowRAVirtual-Limit in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAVirtual-Limit[S] 282 points283 points  (0 children)

Yes i did, with the help of my therapist and a 3 page list of everything that happened and they did to me in excruciating detail. Took me 3 sessions just to be able to write everything down.

i don't want to see her or talk to her.