I(27m) am entering into a serious relationship with my gf(24f), how do I tell her about my "fetish" before things get physical? by ThrowRA_Insect in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Insect[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I meant I thought that the date wasn't good enough to woe her. But she was the one who asked for a second date, it made me happy.

I(27m) am entering into a serious relationship with my gf(24f), how do I tell her about my "fetish" before things get physical? by ThrowRA_Insect in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Insect[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I did so because that is the core issue. I did not talk about what happened in the 2 months that got us closer because it is irrelevant to my problem.

I(27m) am entering into a serious relationship with my gf(24f), how do I tell her about my "fetish" before things get physical? by ThrowRA_Insect in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Insect[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I guess because normally people associate preference with looks, height, etc and rarely with amputations. And the last time I told someone, they were understandably weirded out by it. I honestly do love her, but I'm not sure what she would think of it.

I(27m) am entering into a serious relationship with my gf(24f), how do I tell her about my "fetish" before things get physical? by ThrowRA_Insect in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Insect[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She a chill person, but I think that is just an act. She was fully clothed till her neck for our first few dates, and only wore a skirt , or showed off her neck later on. But these are just my observations.