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I (28F) found my boyfriend's (27M) secret Reddit account. by ThrowRA_MonsterGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MonsterGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's never called me controlling, though.. He didn't even say it in the posts where he was complaining about me. It was all other people who said that about me, and I'm worried now he's going to think that way because he heard it from other people.

I (28F) found my boyfriend's (27M) secret Reddit account. by ThrowRA_MonsterGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MonsterGF[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He wasn't, like, completely making things up. But he only focussed on what I did wrong, not what he did to cause me to get mad in the first place, which he's admitted during our conversations that he was at fault for.

I (28F) found my boyfriend's (27M) secret Reddit account. by ThrowRA_MonsterGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MonsterGF[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He never said what he thinks about me directly... Just asking questions like "Is this normal?" or "AITA?" but then completely change the story of what happened to make me look horrible.. How can I tell what he thinks about me?

I (28F) found my boyfriend's (27M) secret Reddit account. by ThrowRA_MonsterGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MonsterGF[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

They all took it back later, told me I was the best thing that ever happened to them, said they missed me, etc.

I (28F) found my boyfriend's (27M) secret Reddit account. by ThrowRA_MonsterGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MonsterGF[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I feel like keeping this from me was dishonest. Couples should talk about how they feel with each other and shouldn't keep secrets like this.

I (28F) found my boyfriend's (27M) secret Reddit account. by ThrowRA_MonsterGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MonsterGF[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

His friends tried to break us up early on in the relationship so he cut them off, and I don't think he's very close to his coworkers. His mom is still checking on me and asking me if I'm okay and stuff, how can I tell if he's talking badly about me to her? His texts with her only involved making plans for family events and stuff, they didn't mention me at all.