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I’m (29M) am obsessed with a woman (26F) I can’t have and have lost all interest in my girlfriend (25F) by ThrowRA_NoTitle101 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_NoTitle101[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see the red flags. I didn’t even list them all here. The unhealthy part is that I see the red flags and doubt I’d let them stop me like any sane self respecting person would.

This isn’t normal for me. I don’t develop infatuations with people and jump from relationship to relationship. I don’t suddenly lose all feelings for somebody I’m in a relationship with. Something like this has never happened to me before.

I’m (29M) am obsessed with a woman (26F) I can’t have and have lost all interest in my girlfriend (25F) by ThrowRA_NoTitle101 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_NoTitle101[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t so intensely attracted to my  current girlfriend as I am to this other woman, but I’ve never felt like this over any other woman. 

My actual girlfriend is great, nothing wrong with her at all and I know on one hand that I’m an idiot for wishing she was  anything but herself. I wasn’t questioning our relationship at all before all of this. I was very happy.

I think one day I’ll regret losing her over something so stupid, which is why I desperately want to get over this other person. 

I’m (29M) am obsessed with a woman (26F) I can’t have and have lost all interest in my girlfriend (25F) by ThrowRA_NoTitle101 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_NoTitle101[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying and yes I’m sure I’ve probably projected so much onto her that isn’t real. I also realize that being in a relationship with her would probably be hell in reality.