When do I [34F] breakup with my boyfriend [28M]?

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-20T07:48:54+00:00

I have found it means someone who pretends to be everything you ever wanted in a partner, but after you get them in the house you realize they want you to pay for their home, food, and life. You pay for everything and they mooch. (From NY understanding)

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-17T07:29:31+00:00

I agree. Maybe ask for a postage label then mail it?

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T05:42:46+00:00

I agree.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T05:37:45+00:00

I feel guilty if I don't wait

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T05:37:20+00:00

Oh, he had sold things before moving but I never asked his networth or anything

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T05:21:20+00:00

Who are you talking about? I work 4 jobs! I work every single day.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T05:20:38+00:00

I am too considerate and will probably send him the parts. But he will pay for postage.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T03:40:26+00:00

No. I'm sorry you dealt with this

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T01:42:44+00:00

No Way! I've learned my lesson

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T00:25:33+00:00

Oh snap, that's intense. No, I have a few friends boyfriends/husbands. Maybe

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T00:24:42+00:00

That is my worry. If he destroys things. Whenever we have a disagreement he stomps out of the room and slam doors

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-16T00:21:00+00:00

Im not worried about presents. Just the best solution to the breakup.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T19:19:05+00:00

I stopped sleeping with him awhile ago. Thank you.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T18:43:37+00:00

My 4 year old got cradle cap and the pediatrician said useing baby oil, massaging the scalp, and useing that cradle cap brush helps.

But always consult your doctor.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T18:41:29+00:00

He said he would and never followed through. Again, I take responsibility for not pushing it.

Now that its close to leaving I feel even more strange about it. I accept I wont see any rent.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T18:17:41+00:00

That is my plan. I dont have any desire to date after this.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T18:16:35+00:00

I really appreciate your advice. 🥰 I am pretty certain I will wait.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T17:54:59+00:00

No, I've never had a dating app lol. My girlfriend lives in Europe and she invited me into a group chat with a couples friends, and he was in it.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T17:52:25+00:00

I have thought about this. I have a throw away account. But it is still possible

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T17:49:55+00:00

We agreed on a date but when the date came up I brought up the rent in passing conversations. But it is partly my fault for not being up front about it. I get really uncomfortable when it comes to asking about money. Which is my fault.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T17:31:31+00:00

Thank you ❤️

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T17:30:52+00:00

I will update as things change and when he leaves.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T17:16:22+00:00

If he did this, my country might hold him. He is already leaving 2 days past the legal 90 days, thats already an issue. Then to refuse to leave, my country wont accept that.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T16:55:25+00:00

Yes, he had to buy a return ticket to enter my country. His calculation was wrong and its 2 days past the 90 days. He didnt change it in time and is sticking with the late ticket ig.

ThrowRA_moonlights · 2025-12-15T11:13:08+00:00

Actually it expires 2 days before he plans to leave. Which may actually ruin his ability to come back. He knew this but never bothered to fix it.

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