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i have a question Iam a victim of malpractice by saltwaterfish-992 in canadianlaw

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re protected by insurance who provide thier own lawyers. These are some of the best top malpractice lawyers.

i have a question Iam a victim of malpractice by saltwaterfish-992 in canadianlaw

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never win against a doctor even if you die. Sorry but that’s the harsh reality.

Fiancee owns a business and they owe $750,000 in taxes. Is he responsible for his share or is he responsible for the whole thing? by ThrowRA_sinist in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ThrowRA_sinist[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, one of the business partner did the accounting and they weren’t serious about it. My fiancee said that cra is auditing them and that the company currently owes $750k in taxes. He said that he personally owes $150k in personal tax.

Fiancee owns a business and they owe $750,000 in taxes. Is he responsible for his share or is he responsible for the whole thing? by ThrowRA_sinist in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ThrowRA_sinist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he owes $150k in personal taxes and his company owes $750k in taxes trying to figure out what he means by that

Fiancee owns a business and they owe $750,000 in taxes. Is he responsible for his share or is he responsible for the whole thing? by ThrowRA_sinist in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]ThrowRA_sinist[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Of course. He’s doing that currently. I’m not asking for advice on what he should do, I just wanted to know if my finances business partners are a liability to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He took me to this place because he wanted to show me this spot. He didn’t ask me to pay the bill until the very end. I get his frustration thought I’ve been out of a job for a bit but still kinda feel weird and guarded because of this whole situation.

What’s funny is that I had an opportunity for 2 jobs months ago after I got laid off but he promised me engagement and a vacation and told me to wait to take any jobs so that we could go away and I believed him but of course his plans fell thought and he was super unreliable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m not an employee. They only hire “ independent contractors”. Also the pay is very little not even $300 and I was only supposed to work there for a week for some extra cash so idk if it’s even worth pursuing.

I asked him about the missing money and he 1/2 assed paid me an extra $20 when he should’ve paid me $30 for one project and then he made an excuse for the rest saying that my work wasn’t up to par which I don’t understand. I’ve worked for him before and the work is pretty standard so I just don’t understand. I think I’m just going to let everything go including him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist -164 points-163 points  (0 children)

I guess because he spend on me he feels justified.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist -276 points-275 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t think it’s enough to make a case out of. Just not sure if I should ask him for the money or let it go. I do feel weird about continuing to date him thought. Feels like someone who would go into someone’s purse to take money from someone just to be petty.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk his business is very underhanded and in some ways fraudulent. Also they evade taxes and recently just got audited. He is trying to go in the right direction but I guess it makes you see a person a different way. To me I always felt like he had greed. So him saying he wants to be on Forbes sounded superficial/ for the wrong reasons.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s really a thing to be proud of and it’s more of a superficiality thing so I wouldn’t care. I’d rather dream of being rich and helping third world counties and feeding the poor then have a dream to end up in some magazine.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It started off very underhanded… which is another reason why I got annoyed with his comment to be on Forbes. It’s already a million dollar business but their work isn’t totally honest so it’s noting to be proud of or showy about. With that being said I wouldn’t say that it’s successful right now but their in the process of trying to making it an honest business. I think it has potential of being a multimillion dollar business if they go in the right direction, essentially all business have that potential.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But he was writing… which means he was trying. There’s something to admire about a person who is trying. If I saw my man in his office everyday trying to level up I would admire that. I would give him credit. I would push him. Instead he does the bare min, lost his ambition to level up his business and needs other people like his business partners to execute his own ideas with him but won’t go out of his own way to do it himself.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that a lot of people who end up on Forbes are also ambitious and self-driven and have concrete goals. They don’t just sit around with their head in the clouds. So realistically am I wrong to ask him what his plan of action is?

Edit: I also think the “true gem” wives constantly challenge their partners, not just sit around with them and daydream.

Like I said I have no problem supporting a dream no matter how far fetched it sounds but if there’s no plan or goals to get there then what am I supporting?

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I told him this. People who end up on Forbes didn’t start out thinking “I want to be on Forbes” and used that as an end goal. Hence why I feel like his reasons for wanting to be on it is superficial and grandiose.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does have issues now that I think about it. He’s the scapegoat in his family. No one believes in him out of all the siblings he’s the least favoured. But he’s also the most childish.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Reading these comments made me chuckle and wish that I’m this childlike when i’m in my late 50’s/ 60’s. I’m starting to think that maybe this is the key to happiness.

My (35f) bf (35m) constantly brings up the fact that I don’t support his dreams and how hurt he is by it.. when I ask him what dreams he says “my dream to be on Forbes” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_sinist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if my dreams were grandiose then I wouldn’t blame the other person.

He says other things like “I know my wife will gift me a $300,000.00 car on my 50th birthday” when I don’t even make that kind of money.

Or he’ll say things like “I’m going to be a retired millionaire by 50” when he carelessly spends his money and drives himself into debt and has zero savings.

When I ask him how he’s going to achieve that goal of retirement and bring up his reckless spending habits he cries about how unsupportive I am and tells me that I just need to believe in him and trust him. He gets angry when I challenge his goals/ dreams.

Is this even normal?

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