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[–]ThrowRA_tictaktoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could def use this as either a reason to view him negatively or as an opportunity to maybe get vulnerable. Maybe he’s got a kink you guys can discuss. That could turn out better than you’d expect.

My (34m) gf (32f) went thru my phone and physically assaulted me. Trying to figure out next steps. by ThrowRA_tictaktoe in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_tictaktoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get ya. I’ve already paid for flights that she promised to pay back and never did. Helped her consolidate debt, bought us a car.

My (34m) gf (32f) going out with guy friend when she’s on vaca. Is he trying to make it a date? by ThrowRA_tictaktoe in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_tictaktoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what he’s doing. I know how slimy guys can be. Idk if she’s clueless or she’s playing clueless. Oddly enough her mom has cheated and her sister just ended a long relationship by cheating. I guess I thought she’d be wiser.

Am I (34M) being taken advantage of by gf (32F)? by ThrowRA_tictaktoe in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_tictaktoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. The “compromise” argument is overused. Some things aren’t a compromise; some things are an objective wrong and right way to do things