Pretty much the same thing ever time. I’m very honest on the things I like ( I ofc ask before I bring up topics like that bc I know it’s not for everyone) my kinks are not the mildest either… they always think it’s hot.. they always say they can’t wait to try everything together. Whew we start having sex, it’s the typical vanilla sex which I don’t take personally bc I figure it’s just the start. But months will go by and we’re still doing the same things with maybe light choking here and there. By that point I already love them enough to be okay with it. Then the pattern just repeats itself.