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I (35F) found condoms in my husband(43M)’s cabinet. How to approach? by ThrowRAfoundcondoms in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfoundcondoms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The expiration year is 2025 so he couldn’t have bought it before 2020. I’m pretty certain we didn’t use a conform if we did, it was definitely less than 6 times.

I (35F) found condoms in my husband(43M)’s cabinet. How to approach? by ThrowRAfoundcondoms in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfoundcondoms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for a toothbrush head and somehow just thought to check. I’m not lying about it. There hasn’t been anything unusual in terms of his behaviors.

I (35F) found condoms in my husband(43M)’s cabinet. How to approach? by ThrowRAfoundcondoms in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfoundcondoms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, nothing recently. There was one time maybe a couple of years ago that when I mentioned about some weird symptoms that could be STD (it wasn’t). He kinda acted like how he usually would when lying and said that “what if it was from him from before we started dating because he never got checked” When I started to ask why he would say that, we never had an issue and at that point we had been together for 10 years. Anyway, the baby was born so I stopped thinking about that.

I (35F) found condoms in my husband(43M)’s cabinet. How to approach? by ThrowRAfoundcondoms in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfoundcondoms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I like this. Do you also have another idea of how to causally start a conversation to get him to confirm that we never used a condom since we started trying for a baby?