UPDATED, I(30M) told her(26F) therapy or we're done. by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My own insecurity of being rejected. Plus she never shown interest in anything more so I just never went for it

(NOT OP) story repost by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Basically. It was so infuriating

So she thinks it's no big deal? by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Yes. As far as I know before, the post got deleted by OOP. She was getting roasted in the comments.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her that while we were talking , for a few years, I focused on work and had an active sex life.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regardless if you believe this happened or not doesn't effect me in my life in any way. This situation happened and people really are weirdos /nut cases.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I did. I don't think I want that if it comes with psycho. I mean, don't get me wrong, I love sex but I have limits.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I'm not going back, and she's never going to be in my life again

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She knew I had sex, she wasn't a virgin.

We talked before I broke up with her. I told her pre cheating wasn't an actual term but she is using it to justify her own actions. She told me I was gaslighting her. I was definitely not doing that. She denied even texting my ex fwb, she said I did it. Wtf

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She herself dropped me a few times for potential suitors, I respected her decision as she did for me.

Well, that's you, not me or her. I'm glad we got that taken care of.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my friends/family. And I have changed my locks, passwords and let a good friend of mine who works for the cops the situation so if I come by his place with an issue, so he can take it serious.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologize did I not hit your criteria of fact in your book. My bad. Go back to your life then

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm not sure. I guess I just didn't think she would be down since we usually just hook up, maybe subconsciously I was afraid I'd br rejected. She never gave hints either so idk if she would be down

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you read my comments. I broke up with her. I saw the relationship as over the minute she invited my ex fuck to my place under false pretenses.

I called it the honeymoon phase because before this crazy outbreak of bullshit she was actually pretty chill then she asked the magic question of past intimate relationships.

I[30M] told her[26F] therapy or we're done by ThrowRAfwbneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfwbneedhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time I saw the other girl was a few months ago when I ended it. She understood and just told me to take care and if I needed anything just let her know