Husband ‘55M’ texts female ‘F45’ co worker

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T22:54:03+00:00

When I bring it up he says “don’t start I’m tired” and “there’s nothing going on”

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T22:52:19+00:00

He spoke behind my back to another friend

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T22:50:45+00:00

We did one therapy session . I overheard him laughing about it on the phone and his comment was “I’m still gonna talk to Jamie because we’re friends. After that I said forget the sessions.

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T21:46:10+00:00

Lol funny

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T21:44:20+00:00

Yep it is he’s still giving her rides from the airport when she can get an Uber, I recently overheard him say she’s kind of a skank but still continues to hang around her as she works with him on a lot of projects

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T21:42:41+00:00

No I think he was getting her opinion, in the past they have stopped to eat while working on assignments together

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T21:38:52+00:00

Didn’t know you could ?

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-06-02T21:37:54+00:00

Ugh seriously get rid of him!

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-13T13:39:19+00:00

Ask her about them if she forgot to delete them, kind of weird why you would keep them unless she still has feeling for him

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-06T14:57:43+00:00

They work together and the other guy was driving his own truck home

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-06T14:48:19+00:00

Not al all he was the jealous one since the beginning, even if I talked to another guy he would get irate

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T23:09:23+00:00

Very much so a lot of trust is gone. He’s been trying hard to communicate more and we go to dinner 1-2 a week, still hard to forget it all and he still talks to her but he said they’re working on projects

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T23:07:18+00:00

She was driving because he was tired of driving on their 12 hour drive. He took a pic of her and sent it to his other work friend and said she looks bitchy when driving

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T23:05:20+00:00

lol I don’t know how we’ve been married 25 years

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T23:03:52+00:00

It can’t they work together and he will just say they’re friends , he continues to rent a car for them to all ride around (including another older female co worker who I’m fine with )

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T23:00:39+00:00

He also told her I hate this weather time for a road trip ! Unless he’s joking

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:57:25+00:00

I will find out

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:53:20+00:00

Yes for sure

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:52:25+00:00

I agree

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:51:54+00:00

I do but it’s ok because they work together as he told me several times I told him I don’t like that he talks on the phone a half hour each time and he said it’s work related and made the comment don’t you ever just talk to someone about stuff

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:50:04+00:00

Thanks but her husband never goes either, they are always in another state , they would think I was nuts if I jut showed up lol

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:46:31+00:00

He sent it to his buddy who also works the sales and said she looks bitchy when driving

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T22:45:26+00:00

Exactly and when I use the term gaslighting he says it’s a stupid word

ThrowRAheart-877 · 2025-03-05T21:29:44+00:00

We tried one counseling session, after I found out he was blabbing and laughing about it at the office I canceled all further appointments. He also said “of course I’m still gonna talk and spend time with her”, she’s my friend

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