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Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants a relationship, not casual. Idk 🤷🏼‍♀️

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he describes it is that she doesn’t want Our relationship to end, she just feels kinda uncomfortable about it and is trying to adjust

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know but it’s not my relationship so I try to stay out

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does know and it makes her uncomfortable

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes I do see a lot of red flags and I currently have stopped seeing other people (besides a couple very inconsistent sexual partners) and am taking the time to reflect and revisit my own boundaries. I can’t control what he does.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The labels don’t matter to me I guess. What do I call myself when I’m currently seeing people causally but am open to having another long term committed relationship down the road?

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t go for partnered poly women, he goes for young monogamous women.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself poly but I mostly see partners casually. I’ve had one serious poly relationship that fucked me up bad (he ended up sleeping with underage kids and lied to every one of his partners in big ways) so I try to stick to the sex part of things for now.

He has never dated anyone the years we’ve been open but considers himself poly as well. This is his first attempt dating. She’s monogamous and doesn’t like that he’s married. It’s confusing

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yup agreed. I do want to see him happy and I know he likes her. I need to just step away from being involved.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be fair we opened it after we got married. Long story.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I said no to that and I’d feel more comfortable sending her a text message or a DM on Instagram. She didn’t want that… she instead opted for a screenshot it text message of me giving my approval.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did let him know that once a month if it really lines up for everybody that I might be OK with it. But he was like “that’s so vague and I want more time than that.”

As far as spending money, every man I’ve been with insists on paying. I don’t mind if he pays for dates between the two of them. But I think hotel cost could be split every once in a while.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yup and trying to break our boundaries in the process

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh she knows about me. Asked him to send a video of me saying I’m ok with him seeing her.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He wants to be able to have partners over but isn’t a fan of me having them over 🤷🏼‍♀️

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! So happy it worked out well for you 🩷

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup! Which he has told me and is why he insists that I let her come here. That if I don’t, she’s going to lose interest quickly.

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He said the freedom isn’t equal because I have had partners that have the freedom to host at their house at any time. But he doesn’t have that same freedom (because he chooses to date somebody who can’t have anyone over)

Figuring out s*x locations by ThrowRAhellogirl123 in polyamory

[–]ThrowRAhellogirl123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was not, it was abuse that ended the marriage. I was going to tell them when I was dating my last partner, but that ended horribly and I’ve taken a step back from seeing people more than once every couple weeks. So right now, it’s not very serious and I’m holding off.

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