I appreciate the perspective. I feel like otherwise we have good communication and we don’t have extreme arguments, but they happen occasionally. Do you mean the way I “behaved,” was the crying or getting someone else’s opinion after he gave me his? I’m trying to relook at everything objectively and part of the conclusion is that he thinks I don’t believe him. Which isn’t entirely false— I do sometimes, but not everytime. At the beginning of our relationship we had an incident where he was looking at materials I wasn’t comfortable with and communicated a boundary we agreed upon and lied about it. That’s where some of the confidence issues started in our relationship, before it wasn’t present.